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Btw, bigotry does not need to be conscious or intentional or malicious to be real and cause harm, and you can be transphobic even when you're not trying to or believe you're are not

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[–] LeylaaLovee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Responding to you here because fuck that thread so much. I have no idea how someone can essentially say "Yeah I'd date a trans man if they didn't have a masculine body" and see no issues with it. Fine with dating someone pre-transition because they're who you want them to be and not who they want to be? It's insane what "allies" say.

[–] unmarketableplushie@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago

They really need to take a long hard look in the mirror.

[–] conneru64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

I'm pretty sure that commenter cited that reason as why it would be a bad idea.