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I nuked my Reddit accounts today. Deleted all comments and posts, then the accounts themselves. The tool I used showed each comment as it was deleted, and it was bittersweet.

I watched old gaming and movie discussions I barely remember appear and then get flagged as deleted. Communities I once participated in and then moved on as the years past flashed by. I remembered how I felt back then, and then watched them scroll on into oblivion.

Now I feel...I guess it's grief. Sadness for that part that's gone. Sadness that it'll never be there again. Like footprints on a beach wiped away by the tide. It's like it never happened. There is no trace.

And I feel anger. Mad that it came to this. Mad that I let a corporation have so much of my time and thoughts. Mad that they made it clear my life was nothing but a product to them.

It's over now. Time for a new chapter.

Anyone else have strong feelings about losing a part of the past like this?

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[–] smajl@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

I don’t delete my data (posts) because once you google a problem and you realize that a solution that you are looking at is written by you few years back you know you do a good job and you could be saving your future self an headache.

[–] angrylittlekitty@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

here's a question, wouldn't it be more impactful to encourage users to redact with a protest statement promoting fedverse first?

assuming they're doing a 30 day backup scheme then this becomes part of their working set going forward. messing with the data in this way especially if we can do it in volume might make it harder for LLMs to extract useful information from our noise.

we then can then start deleting our posts as a second protest after that.

thoughts?

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[–] bubu@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

Beautifully written, and moving. I think I understand how you feel, and I empathize with you.

[–] m_talon@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

For those asking, I used redact.dev to delete my stuff. It's available on lots of platforms including mobile.

[–] Deemo@lemmy.fmhy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I couldn't truly nuke my account. I'm studying for mcat and r/MCAT has a ton of better explanations for aamc (test maker) practice tests.

I sort use Lemmy 90% and reddit 10%.

I also installed blacklist to filter out reddit content (their is a toggle to show hidden reddit searches in worst case if needed). This kinda helps give visibility to other sites.

[–] t0fr@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Yeah. I'm feeling like doing the same. I did not post much, and what I did, did not gain much traction. But I think it's time to leave that place.

[–] nickb333@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

I was going to overwrite mine after 14 years but a significant event made me hold off. My home city in the UK has been in the news for all the wrong reasons and r/nottingham is useful to keep up with events without having to trawl through the mainstream media and all the right-wing trolling that follows them. Maybe next week when I get back home and things have calmed down.

[–] lysy@szmer.info 2 points 2 years ago

Nope, I did the same yesterday without looking back. I feel happy not to use this corporate crap anymore.

[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Radical problems require radical solutions.

I wasn't an active Redditor, and so far I like this community much better. Might change as the place gets more and more inhibitors.

[–] nii236@lemmy.jtmn.dev 1 points 2 years ago

Why delete though? Its all still there in Reddit's database.

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Over a decade on my account, not sure the actual year. I won't be nuking my account, personally. I'm happy with kbin for now and haven't opened reddit since Monday.

[–] Maximilious@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Same here for reddit. I won't remove my account just yet, but have unsubbed from a lot of fluff subs I was a part of.

Once RiF goes away I'll use desktop when needed for searches, but I never actually sit on it at a desktop. I'm hopeful all subs I use will come over, but some may not. Namely homelab and homelabsales.

[–] Fmstrat@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

I had this feeling when deleting another social media account. On a good note, it's fleeting. Now most are in the void for me.

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