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Some will call this blasphemous - If you want to eat spaghetti without having to slurp up noodles and get the sides of your mouth and potentially your shirt stained, use a fork and spoon. Slice the spaghetti buy crisscrossing it, scoop into the spoon, then put it in your mouth. Probably only do this at home and not at a dinner party.
Simply break it into little pieces before cooking it. Bonus points if you do it in front of an Italian.
The thing is, there's a million different pasta shapes, and most of them are short. Yes, it will make pasta-passionate people sad, if you break spaghetti, because that makes them terrible at trapping sauce compared to the many other shapes.
But ultimately, it's also a matter of: Why are you eating spaghetti-shaped pasta, if you don't want it to be spaghetti-shaped?
I don't use a spoon, but I do twist it on the plate or bowl to get a "ball" of spaghetti (or linguini or angel hair).
I just use a different pasta. spirals are my go to.
I break spaghetti in half before cooking