Personally, if another person came to me seeking advice, I'd feel honored that they hold me in a regard high enough to consider how I'd act in a situation and apply it to theirs.

People who get angry when their advice is not used are just weird.

[–] shootwhatsmyname@lemm.ee 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I totally agree with you, but it hits different when the advice is delivered by a close friend, boss, SO, etc. who is frustrated with you because they’re assuming your intentions are bad and they don’t respect you or trust you because they think you’re choosing to fail at certain things. When this is happening with most every relationship you have on a daily basis over 10, 20, 30+ years it can be a lot to handle

[–] earphone843@sh.itjust.works 17 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

The problem is that the advice is usually unsolicited