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Joe Exotic posts on instagram that his husband was deported by ICE after years of shilling for Donald Trump.

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[–] OccultIconoclast@reddthat.com 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Ain't nobody should have to snitch to the cops about nothing if they don't want to. Shouldn't require marriage at all.

Also, if marriage isn't about love, then how come you can't marry your sister? I'm not advocating for sister marriage, I'm just pointing out it definitely is about love, and that's why marrying your sister is weird.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think what they were saying is that “marriage” is a legally defined union between two people. A 12 year old child bride will be married - but I wouldn’t have thought love comes into that kind of horrific union.

There’s plenty of people who are not married but are in love with their partner and there are plenty of married couples where the love died long ago; if it even ever existed.

[–] OccultIconoclast@reddthat.com -1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Well that's wrong. Spouses should love each other. The law shouldn't keep them together if they don't. Abolish legal marriage.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago

Yeah - a loveless marriage is possibly the saddest place you could ever be. Don’t do it to yourself. (which, admittedly, you seem unlikely to.)

Whilst, yes, abolishing marriage might be a good idea there are certain legal and tax advantages to being married (in some jurisdictions). These would need to be worked out to apply equally to all couples (thrupples, polygamous communes, multi-wife faiths etc.) but wouldn’t be impossible.