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[–] bownage@beehaw.org 7 points 6 days ago

Had a nice chill easter weekend. Things are okay, but I feel anxious.

Last week one of my best friends told me he thought I didn't really want to see him anymore because I don't seem to enjoy his company as much recently. I was absolutely shook but luckily I quickly realised the issue which is that I've been getting complacent in our friendship.

Tbh I have to do most of the work in a lot of my friendships and I've been really tired and this is my one friend that actually does a lot of the emotional work himself. Which led me to take that space for granted or at least not show my appreciation. It was definitely a wake up call.

Anyway now I'm planning a bunch of stuff to do together with my bestie so we'll be grand again in the future :)