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[–] megane_kun@lemmy.zip 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

To me, it's mostly how an instance is ran. How it makes its decisions: defederating or not, and with whom, how they handle complaints, how they handle bans, etc. makes a difference in both the communities it hosts and its members.

There's also the matter of user culture. Some instances, like Beehaw, Lemmygrad, and Hexbear are known for a certain user culture. Some users might steer clear away from certain instances because of that perceived user culture.

And then there's the issue of defederation stance. It might not be readily apparent, or affect your user experience in a big way, but for some users, it's a factor. This is also where lemm.ee made its mark. It basically used defederation as a last resort, and some users were drawn to that.

[–] LucidNightmare@lemm.ee 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's why I was here. I've already made a few more accounts just to have backups in case this happens again, but I really really enjoyed how I could see most of the Fediverse, and could block with my own settings if I didn't like the way another instance was ran. I will miss it. :'-]

[–] AreaSIX@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

I'm in the same boat. I do not like defederation. So where do we go? Any other instance with the same openness? I don't know details about instances, but I know I'd like to avoid .world though.

[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Is blocking an instance the same as defederation? I found lemmy.today the other day and they don't block any instances.

[–] AlteredEgo@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 days ago

I think so but https://lemmy.today/instances doesn't have any blocked instances at all, which can't be good lol

[–] LucidNightmare@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago

I honestly haven't put too much thought into it yet, but I joined sh.itjust.works and db0 because I've seen some of their users around and thought they were cool. :O

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 days ago

.ml is basically federated with everyone