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What's something that makes someone immediately attractive to you? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
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Attraction is a very personal thing, what works for someone won't work for someone else. What makes someone attractive to you?

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[–] razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 6 days ago

Kindness, empathy, humor, independence, reliability, and curiosity about the world are all traits that make someone attractive in the sense that I want to know them and be their friend. Although those qualities are valuable in romantic relationships too, I haven’t been able to describe what separates a romantic attraction from a friendly one yet.