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What's something you pretended to be ok with but really weren't? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
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Most of us have pretended to be ok with something to save a relationship, or just to cope. What's something you pretended to be ok with?

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[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Also one of us's parents and sibling and all their abuse over the years.

Also the abuse and stiffling that both school and jobs inflicted on us, none of them really helped nor understood us and we ended up leaving both in the end with very little to show for it.