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Google photos on ios is literally a hostage situation. Remove key functionalities like copying an image or editing an image unless you give them full unrestricted access to your entire photo library. (The holy grail of surveillance capitalism data). Data extortion masquerading as a service.
This is the reason FOSS has such a bad name, people will say shit like this as if what they're doing is easy.
I guess if I won the lottery and didn't have a job I could spend all that time and money to maintain all that shit.
I have a full time job and am working poor like many. I'm hosting all this on a decade old PC that I built back in the day. I find the time I spend on deploying and maintainig my services very rewarding, but its not for everyone, and that's fine.
I've been at it for years. It takes time and effort and learning to do, and I'll be the first to help people who post questions here to Lemmy for self hosting.
FOSS is a community like any other with good and bad apples in it. You can learn a ton from the community and take control of your own data if you want to.
I find it very rewarding and fun, but if you expect me to write a full how to every time I mention that I self host that's a little crazy. I'll happily answer anyone's questions and share my knowledge but I'm not just gonna dump six-ish years of my notes in a comment.