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What are your interests? If you already have interests that's a great start. It might be difficult in your area to find women who like the same shit as you, but there will be some. And if you're going out only trying to talk to 'ugly women' as you said, they will get the vibe that you think they're ugly and not wanna talk to you. Every women can just be a friend the same way you have make friends. Start by trying to increase your friend group with both genders and I'm sure you'll find someone you're interested in and who's interested in you.
Well, i have a degree in computer science, i like a lot stuff about pc, coding. I also like art in general, i even draw sometimes and want to get better at it.
Go to an art group. If you're in a city there's probably several. Stuff like drawing in the park is downright normie of a hobby. You'll get better and find yourself chatting with people who share an interest
im not that skilled for an art group, maybe sometime in the future, but right now my drawings are childish and its kinda cringe in a way
Kill the cop in your head dude. People sketching in the park aren't there because they're good at sketching, they're there because the park is lovely, sketching is fun, and it's nice to combine those with other people who like them