Is it clear?
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Oh, for sure. Once you're in a relationship then there's a whole world to explore, as consent is established. But the video (comedically/crudely depending on your own sense of humour) alludes to very early flirtation and the games people play, where a grey area arises as one party wants the other to believe that they are somehow reluctant to proceed (although they're not), to somehow present the idea that they're not usually promiscuous, perhaps to massage the ego of the instigator. The concept of 'sweet surrender' is explored in countless romantic works and is definitely a thing - and not something that should be conflated with rape, is I guess what i'm trying to put across.