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it was on one of these threads over 6 months ago someone asked how things were going and i mentioned her cancer diagnosis. feels right to update.

today was her last treatment. prognosis looks great.

fuck cancer

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[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 14 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Meanwhile we just learned that my FiL's chemo was all for nothing and we need to start planning for his end of life care... 65 years old, won't make it to 66, it fucking sucks.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 6 points 13 hours ago

I'm so sorry. May it be as least-painful as possible, for him and all of you.

[–] ToiletFlushShowerScream@lemmy.world 20 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Us who are part of cancer research thank you for these updates. They make the long hours less of a burden.

[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 8 points 14 hours ago

o7

Yeah, i know a meme is kinda flippant, but so are words from a rando on the internet... Your work is appreciated. Thanks to the work of folks like you, an old buddy got to spend an extra year or so with his wife and kids.

[–] recursive_recursion@lemmy.ca 37 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Congrats!🥳🎉

Fuck cancer🖕

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 20 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Holup, I think we should hear out both sides of the issue and not make any condemnations just like that.

Kidding, of course. Fuck cancer.

[–] showmeyourkizinti@startrek.website 10 points 15 hours ago

“Fuck Cancer!” So much for the tolerant left. /s

Seriously Fuck Cancer and horse it rode in on.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 21 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Hell yeah :)

That's fucking awesome. I don't know y'all, but that put a smile on my face, because every win against cancer is a beautiful thing. Here's to y'all having a long and happy life!

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 16 points 17 hours ago

thank you!

it really felt like living in the future, and not the experience i expected from media. cancer drugs have come a long way from even a decade ago. the rather invasive surgeries were robotic, and precise. very weird, but in a good way.

[–] ShadowRam@fedia.io 15 points 17 hours ago

With all the shit going on in the world, it's great to hear some good news!

Congratz and thanks for sharing!

Fuck Cancer.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

We are in the same club. My wife had surgery and chemo for colon cancer last year. She's testing clean. We are hopeful that it's all behind us now. But the neuropathy from the chemo is still very bad. It may be another full year of that.

congrats!

the neuropathy

yep, this is the one side affect shes kinda terrified of.

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago

That's incredible, what a relief. Happy for you all! Enjoy

[–] otter@lemmy.ca 7 points 15 hours ago

Congratulations!

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 16 hours ago

Score one for our side!

Fuck cancer!

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 9 points 17 hours ago

Wonderful news! I wish your wife the best of health 🙏

[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 6 points 15 hours ago

Dude that’s so awesome. I’m pumped for you guys.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 6 points 16 hours ago

Congratulations dude!

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 4 points 15 hours ago

Congratulations!

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 15 hours ago

Congratulations! Happy for you and your wife.

I hope I get to ring that bell one day myself, providing the medicaid cuts don't kill me of course. 🤷‍♂️

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 15 hours ago

Woo wooooo! That's a tough battle. Congratulations!