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Every time somebody sends me a thumb I take it as "whatever you say you fucking dumbass" and it pisses me off.

And ya, I'm aware that that the replies are going to be thumbs, let's see em ya jerks!!!

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[–] drzoidberg@lemmy.world 48 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Get that fucking thing out of here pal!!!

[–] PillowTalk420@lemmy.world 45 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah that sounds like a you problem. Most people use it to just mean "ok." But I mean, if you said "mom just died 😭" and you get "πŸ‘" as a reply, that one's probably rude.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No. This is a rude reply:πŸ–•

[–] The_Helmet_Stays_On@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] pipes@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago

This one feels worse to me ahahah

I use the πŸ‘react to show that I've seen the message but don't need to respond. Usually in the case of someone sending a money transfer or something like that.

[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 30 points 1 week ago (2 children)

When I personally use it it means "OK, sounds good, I have nothing more to add but I read your message."

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It has also been ruled in court (I think in Australia but I dont remember for certain) that it is legally binding as a verbal agreement.

Basically a farmer sent a message to a wholesaler saying "Hey, I need to double my stock feed order for next quarter" or something like that, the supplier sent back a thumbs up. So the delivery arrived and it was only the regular amount. The farmer had to buy the extra amount at retail prices and it cost him tens of thousands more, so he sued for damages. The supplier argued that text messages and thumbs up werent the correct ordering procedure and that he wasnt liable, the court ruled effectively that "Then you should have said that. A thumbs up is a general term of positive response to a question or statement and in this case constitutes acceptance of a verbal agreement" and had to cough up.

Found the case, it was Canada and the farmer F-ed up not the supplier.

[–] adhocfungus@midwest.social 11 points 1 week ago

Exactly. Everyone at work uses it to cut the chain of "Looks good", "Thanks", "No problem", etc short. If you're interpreting an emoji as an attack you might have anger issues.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

If I react to a message with a πŸ‘ it's innocuous, but if I reply to a message πŸ‘ it's actually me being passive aggressive like I can't be bothered to type a real response

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

Yes! I just responded with something similar lol that's exactly how I use it and how I would take it

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Context, it is the "K" of Emojis, acceptable as quick response, insulting in any serious conversation

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[–] N0x0n@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Huh? Maybe I'm strange... But sometimes I give a thumbs up emoji here on Lemmy when I agree with someones argument and have nothing more to add because I 100% agree with the content !

Never though It could be interpreted as rude :/

[–] RaptorBenn@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 week ago

Whatever you say you fucking dumbass

[–] morgan_423@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Never in the history of me sending thumb responses in work chats has it ever meant β€œwhatever you say you fucking dumbass.”

It's primarily used to show acknowledgement. It's the office worker equivalent of "10-4."

Seems like you have some pretty serious projection issues to work out OP lol

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[–] easily3667@lemmus.org 20 points 1 week ago

No, you need therapy

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Depending on the context, it is can be used sarcastically, which may be rude. But I've used this even in semi-formal settings.

I have to ask, are people these days that easily offended?

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[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

Whatever you say you fucking dumbass πŸ‘

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don’t, and I use it all the time. That said, I try to be mindful of context. For example, if I’m going to a party and someone texts saying to grab ice or something: πŸ‘

Conversely, if someone is texting to say their dog died, or congratularions of a big achievement: !πŸ‘

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[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

Not … really ? Don't think I ever seen it used in ways that could be read that way , not sure wy some one would use it like that either

[–] terminhell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 week ago
[–] tonyn@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago

It's possible you have dealt with more than your fair share of sarcastic passive aggressive people in your life so far. Most people give a πŸ‘πŸΌ as a confirmation, like "OK". Its especially common when someone is bust, like if they're driving or in a meeting, or trying to think.

[–] makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 week ago

I've read that Gen z doesn't like this as a response. I think it's just ok

[–] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 week ago

I suppose it depends what I sent them to prompt the reply? "Dinner at 6?" followed by πŸ‘ is fine. "My grandpop is dying, he may not make it through the week" -> πŸ‘ would send me right off.

[–] guy@piefed.social 11 points 1 week ago

Depends on context but mainly it just means 'Okay!' or 'Go ahead!'

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

It depens on the context. I use πŸ‘ in my work to show that I get the messages my superiors sent me.

[–] CaptainBasculin@lemmy.bascul.in 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 week ago

Like β€˜OK’ it depends on context, and irony can be hard to discern online.

[–] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

It depends on context and conversation. I get πŸ‘ replies to my comments at work which 80% of the time means whatever I'm about to break in the code base nobody is currently working on.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Depends on where you put the thumb I guess.

[–] JayGray91@kbin.earth 7 points 1 week ago
[–] bluebadoo@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

No, I see it as friendly, but I receive them from my friends. I think if you have a doubt in the relationship already you are more likely to interpret any short reply as rude than if you are confident in what your relationship means to them.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 6 points 1 week ago

Nope. When I make plans with people, it usually ends with one of us giving a πŸ‘. I thought it meant "we're all on the same page".

[–] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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