who is spending $1000 in the google store?
deGoogle
Pixel Phone for GrapheneOS, unfortunately the only option for now.
You mean one should also fight this "from within". But be aware that as of right now Google/Alphabet is a corporation providing services at their whim, or in accordance to their labyrinthine TOS that you have OK'd away countless times (I sure know I did), which is the exact reason there is no appeal process.
IMHO one should attack precisely that: the dark patterns when signing the TOS, the TOS itself being too complex, and maybe also contradicting law in some countries. And as you probably know, these and other things are being fought against by countries and entities.
However, my direct answer to all 4 scenarios is to not use the service at all.
I have no interest in deGoogling Google from within. I'd rather spend my time using & advertising for alternatives.
That does not mean I am blind to the crimes (too big a word? I stand by it) Google/Alphabet are committing and will continue to speak out against them.