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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[โ€“] TanknSpank@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

This was linked on some post about alternatives to that other site I want to stop using. And honestly I'm quite confused on the "it doesn't matter/it does matter" so I'm just rolling with it and not trying to worry about it.

[โ€“] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Joined sh.itjust.works since it's located in North America, has open registration, and the admin sounds like he knows what he's doing running a server. I've stayed 'cause it's been stable and I like the admin's vibe. It and lemmy.world seem to have become the main large "general purpose" instances since they both have open registration.

I also have an account on kbin that I'm not using much at the moment. I think that site has lots of future potential, though.

[โ€“] riskable@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I chose Kbin because at the time I went searching it was the only option that was working/responsive haha.

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[โ€“] jclinares@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Kbin has my favorite interface from the federated sites I've seen, and the developer seems like a decent dude.

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[โ€“] Hyacathusarullistad@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I chose kbin.social because of the alleged tankie issues at Lemmy. I didn't know enough about the fediverse to realise though that only a handful of Lemmy instances were included in the "warning" I'd heard about, so I looked to kbin instead.

Based on what I've seen from the admin here, though, I'm confident I'm in the right instance. He seems like an honest, stand-up dude who genuinely believes in all the best things the fediverse seems to be capable of

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[โ€“] TheUtopianCat@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

I'm on lemmy.ca because I'm Canadian.

[โ€“] randomperson@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

I used Lemmy for a while but now I am planning to exclusively use kbin. It appears to be a way more mature project and is infinitely better UI/UX wise than Lemmy. Moreover it's a project maintained by a fellow Polander and not a bunch of tankies.

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[โ€“] atp2112@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.world: because it was the top result on Google and I neither knew about the other servers nor remembered my experiences with Mastodon.

Probably going to stay here anyway.

Mostly out of laziness

[โ€“] psyspoop@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

I ended up with kbin.social since I liked the interface, liked the roadmap and existing integration with Mastodon, and because that instance was the one everyone was suggesting for KBin at the time. I'll most likely spin up my own instance for myself and maybe a small group of others to join.

[โ€“] pizza_time@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I've been using Kbin and Lemmy so far and I like both, but Kbin seems much more stable right now. I like kbin interface a bit more and the ranking algo seems to work better (there an issue on lemmy with hot and posts being added that should not be there). Kbin also let's me sort by 3hr/6hr/12hr in addition to normal sorting options.

[โ€“] minorsecond@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

kbin does seem more stable. It hasn't had issues for the couple days I've been here, while lemmy has gone down quite a few times during the same time frame.

[โ€“] tacticaltweaker@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Lemmy.world initially cause I didn't like the overbearing moderation and locked communities of beehaw.org and the developers of lemmy.ml. Kbin seems to be great and I prefer its timeline / sorting, I just wish it was a bit more polished with magazine syncing and certain UI features, but that should come with time.

[โ€“] bitaites@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

I've created accounts on all of those and kbin is by far my favorite. Lemmy.world has some sorting issue where all the "hot" posts are two days old. And the others are just overzealous in their moderation or push weird political takes on non-political communities and I'm not really fond of that.

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[โ€“] freebrick@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

I initially made an account here because it looked cool. But I didn't know that kbin was part of the Federation so I also made an account on the newly created lemmy.world instance just to bounce between kbin and lemmy. But once federation was enabled here I subscribed to all the communities I had subscribed on lemmy world. Still bounce between the two buuuuut spending most of my time here. Love you guys!

I initially used reddthat.com because I've already tried 5 different instances and the sign up doesnt work. Then I remembered about the piracy community, so i switched over to lemmy.dbzer0.com, a pirate heaven. Feels like home. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ

[โ€“] zorrothefox2001@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.ml re-opened registration but I had problems signing up. Lemmy.world seemed like the next best option.

[โ€“] axzxc1236@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

lemmy.ml says they are overloaded, I then found beehaw but they requires signup application so I say fuck it and choose lemmy.world instead.

[โ€“] hotdogcostanza@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

lemm.ee said it was newcomer-friendly and I was a newcomer so bingo bango there I went. I suppose I can always join a different instance if I need to but I'm still just getting a grip on this place so I'm good for now.

[โ€“] nivenkos@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

lemmy.world is more open and performant than lemmy.ml and Beehaw.

[โ€“] trachemys@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 2 years ago

I figured my instance would make it easier to satisfy my requirement to tell everyone I use Arch, btw.

[โ€“] SnowboardBum@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Sticking with BeeHaw for their community (usually browse local only) and now Kbin for the wider fediverse. I'd use Fedia.io over kbin.social (to put less strain on Kbin.social) but fedia.io isn't federating perfectly yet and seems to have image issues. I'm sure @Jerry will have it running smooth soon enough and I'll probably migrate my Kbin/fediverse-wide browsing there.

[โ€“] druppel@feddit.nl 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I picked my regional one (technically also better for latency)

Also better because if the admin bans you, you can find them in person and "discuss" about the ban. (such discussions usually involves fists)

(/s please don't actually commit a violent act lol)

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