LadyButterfly

Hey Z! I know you're not being malicious, but you could be misread as advocating violence. I can't edit comments so I've deleted it.

Yes that's true. Lower chance of being attacked or fetishised. Sad but true

Yep the control is a massive part of the abuse, they want a captive. You deserved better

Anytime 😊

Ugh yeah, when I messaged a trans woman online dating shed usually heavily stress she was trans because she was so used to women bailing. It's so disappointing.

Yay! Glad you're here lemmy daddy 😊

These are really valid questions! I'm a fiercely pro dad woman, and I'll try to answer. IME people's relationship with their dad tends to be different to their mom, they're two different roles and two different people. IME people tend to go to dad for practical stuff (financial advice, DIY, moving things etc) and mom for home based practical and lengthy emotional discussions. Dad will also do emotional stuff, but often different style eg pep talks. For protection stuff, IME people go to dad.

Yes I love and miss my dad very much. A good person accepts mistakes, no matter what their role. And you can always go to a good parent cos they're always safe.

I'm sorry you didnt get the dad all children deserve. Have you found !dadforaminute@lemmy.world People post when they need dad style advice or a hug.

Thanks otp, unfortunately I struggle to read text on lemmy coloured backgrounds. Writing is also just going to unavoidably foil me sometimes. Please bear in mind, the way written language developed is neurotypical, and so not how my brain is wired. If everyone's brain was wired like me, written language would have developed differently. It isn't as simple as learning linguistic rules... if it was, I'd have done that years ago.

It's my favourite community! The dads here can't do enough for you, they're always here with fatherly advice, big hugs and kind words. They're 100% LGBT positive as well, and the mod is really inclusive. Speaking to other people, there's many posters that get a lot from reading the posts, they just don't want to open up themselves. Here just existing REALLY helps people.

No of course it wasn't drag queen's that's ridiculous. It was caused by trans women using a public women's bathroom.

Thanks daddy! See you next weekend for family BBQ... don't go mad with the ribs again haha

Nobody's perfect but you'll always be my brilliant daddy. I hope you have a truly wonderful fathers day ❤️