Semivir

joined 11 months ago
[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 10 months ago

Definitely Bale. Oh the memes...

[does the voice]
"Swear to me!"

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 10 months ago

"Wait, do you mean literally, or figuratively?"

Yes.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

There have been similar posts in the past and you all might be tired of commenting on them, but I'm really curious what it's like for others. So here I am posting my own question thread.

Given that our core identities are defined by lots of different quirks, gender, romance, sexuality, platonic affinity being some of them. I am curious to know what aspects all of you measure yourself by and how you place yourselves within the bigger picture. Especially hoping for some wholesome takes that may help someone else feel more comfortable with themselves, should they adopt the way of thinking.

I'll share my own take: Gender identity

  • Masculine-feminine spectrum: Definitely more comfortable with feminine side.
  • Fluidity: experiencing some, not sure if that is because of uncertainty or inherent.
  • Intensity flux: also experiencing some, some days are just a little extra "I want to be a girl"-days.
  • Overall: unsure about where that leaves me, status quo (I'm just me) is fine for now.

Attraction to others

  • Sexuality: Definitely bisexual, trans-inclusive (who would have guessed).
  • Romantic...ality?: Vastly different from sexuality, mostly romantically interested in women (cis or trans), i'd say biromantic with a 90% bias. Any men I've had romantic interest in shared some feminine traits, so 'femromantic'? Is that a thing?

Social traits

  • Platonic affinity: Find myself feeling most comfortable around women. As long as I can remember I've always been one of the girls and some interactions with men actually confirm that I'm absolutely nothing like the average dude.
  • General sensitivity: Without a doubt HSP, even though others usually can't tell (which gets me in trouble).
  • Social tolerance: Intuitively introverted, though have become more outgoing lately, so not strictly introverted.

Obviously these are just some examples of things we can measure ourselves by, curious to see which ones you will add or remove and why. And it goes without saying: Only share what you're comfortable sharing.

TL;DR: I'm a huge nerd and have reduced myself to an n-dimensional vector, and I'm asking you to do the same and maybe add some dimensions you know of.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hey at least they hit with the "you will regret this", so the receiver knows in advance there's not going to be an end to the words to come.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 10 months ago

Oh I like that one better!

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I swear I'm a good girl...

For this reason I bow my knees before the Father Ephesians 3:14

Lot's of fun yet to be had taking other passages out of context.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 10 months ago

Yes, definitely need more of these! I'll try make some if inspiration hits.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago

That's a bug, thanks for reporting. Should be fixed with the next update!

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago

Honestly? Didn't think that far ahead. Could be growing up twice as fast, but you might not want that. Could be learning things, in which case yay, but underwhelming. Could also be job/life experience, learning important lessons early to prevent making stupid mistakes?

It's your NG+, so your call. 😊

 

If you're starting a new game, what class and build are you picking?

You get to keep any experience and unlocked abilities of your choice.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 months ago

Next level truck nuts. 🤣

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 months ago

Haha, somehow there is always a relevant XKCD.

[–] Semivir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Ah see, you got me there. I'll be sure to keep that in mind and do things very gayly from now on.

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