Why are you talking at all, if you don't know the answer to the question?
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Can you get to your real point? What do you want?
I mean. You feel bad for people just cuz they like their job?
Yet. Reddit has been around for over a decade and has millions of users and lemmy has like a half million users. Lemmy isn't better, there's just a lot less of it. Duh.
One teenager chose to drive drunk and he killed 4 people. This teenager got in a fight with her boyfriend (presumably) and killed 2 people.
Can you explain what's worse?
The feelings of other people cannot be a non-factor if other people are involved in killing you.
Because ultimately you're saying that it should be legal, and if you want it to be legal you're going to need them to agree with you because they will never make it legal otherwise.
What's so great about r/lounge?
"Where your idea kind of falls apart is that you need someone to manage all this"
This is nearly nonsensical. It's not a completely fleshed out idea, but just because the commenter hasn't named a possible manager doesn't mean it's bad.
You think anybody is gonna make the perfect proposal to solve our problems in 50 words or less?