curlyqute

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I'm a horrible mother in c/parenting@lemmy.world
[โ€“] curlyqute@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I just feel horrible. I never wanted to yell like that at him ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I'm a horrible mother in c/parenting@lemmy.world
[โ€“] curlyqute@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

We change him on the changing table. That'll obviously have to end. He was completely naked. My parter is out of town for work.

And the crib is a new thing. We had to do sleep training because he literally refused to sleep one night. We tried for over 2 hours to put him down. Then gave up. Tried the cry it out method put pediatrician recommend (this was round 3 of any sleep training). He stubbornly SAT up in his crib for another 2+ hours refusing to sleep. Nodding off and falling over. Finally slept sometime after 12:45am

I'm a horrible mother in c/parenting@lemmy.world
[โ€“] curlyqute@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My partner is out of town for work until tomorrow evening.

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My son will be 13 months on the 16th. This evening has been particularly rough. It started with my pom escaping the fence during dinner. So I had to interrupt my son eating and go collect my dog. Then he decided he didn't want to finish eating or basically even start eating. I put him in the bath since that always helps. It helped until I took him out.

So I was trying to get him dressed for bed since he was just absolutely tired. Well while wrestling him to get a diaper on. He keeps alligator rolling. I just snapped and yelled at him. But he was so focused on his own screaming that he didn't even flinch.

I feel like a failure. After that I finally succeeded in getting a diaper on him then. Tried to nurse him to sleep like we usually do. NOPE. continued to scream and fight sleep. After about 10 minutes, I gave up and just put him in the crib. He fought sleep for another 5 minutes then crashed.

Earlier I checked him for a fever or anything physical that needed medical attention. He was just exhausted ๐Ÿ˜ž