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lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month in c/fediverse@lemmy.world

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

This is it. It's really easy for cis people to talk about trans issues like they are nothing because they don't experience them. I should know. I used to be like that before I knew I was a trans girl, and then I eventually came to realize why it hurt so much when my egg broke and I came to be in that position.

lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month in c/fediverse@lemmy.world

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago (14 children)

Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

If it wasn't clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying "I'm not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but..." is the equivalent of saying "I'm not racist, I have black friends". I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month in c/fediverse@lemmy.world

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago (23 children)

It's sad. I'm really going to miss this place. I migrated to lemmy.blahaj.zone. I hope I'll continue to have great experiences there.

The lemm.ee instance will shut down at the end of the month, where should the community move ? in c/casualconversation@lemm.ee

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I've participated in their communities and they've been nothing but nice to me.

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So long and thanks for all the Fish (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 month ago by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/meta@lemm.ee

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Despite its challenges lemm.ee will forever hold a special place inside my heart. When I signed up to lemm.ee I was younger, more aggressive. Less mature. I did many things to hurt people, I didn't realize that it was because I myself was hurting inside, it took me far longer to realize that. And even though it was communities on lemmy.blahaj.zone who helped me find myself. I still feel that I owe some of it to this instance who gave me a home here when no one else would've. Thank you to everyone here who tolerated the rude and aggressive young man I used to be, so I could finally come out as the woman I always was, so I could realize the pain I always had but never knew I had. And for that I want to say thanks to lemm.ee. lemm.ee wasn't just a server, it was a community. I hope I can have new and joyful experiences on lemmy.blahaj.zone, but no place will feel more like home to me than this place. Farewell lemm.ee. You will be missed.

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[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'll begrudgingly put the dress on but I'm not tucking my girldick. I never tuck and I don't ever want to.

(I'd really rather not do either, I'm a tomboy and I prefer to dress in masc clothing, but I'm more open to wearing fem clothes than I am to tucking.)

Male rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Makes sense to me, AMAB these days has little to do with maleness, it just describes if someone was born with a dick and balls, that's how they decide "It's a boy" when the baby is born anyway, even though they might be dead wrong 🏳️‍⚧️

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[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That's what I did as well, just because god or whatever higher power gave me a penis doesn't make me any less of a woman.

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Assigned Cock at birth (feddit.org)

submitted 2 months ago by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Male rule (feddit.org)

submitted 2 months ago by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[Vent] Well it's official I'm starting DIY HRT (lemm.ee)

submitted 3 months ago by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Earlier this week I went to see my therapist like I usually do and today I told her that I'd like to start HRT sooner rather than later, I know that people sometimes wait months if not years before starting but I'm not okay with waiting that long. Unfortunately she said that she wasn't sure it would be a good idea and that I should wait longer to be sure. I told her I wasn't waiting and that if she didn't write the note for me I'm going the DIY route, and she told me that that would be a very bad idea since she believes I would regret it due to my unwillingness to "fully girlmode" (which just means she thinks me wearing makeup and having long hair alone isn't enough) and the fact that I enjoy many manly things like bodybuilding. I for some reason mentioned that I could stop after I got the permanent changes I wanted and she responded that if I'm already considering detransitioning it's not a good idea. What the fuck? How the fuck is stopping HRT later detransitioning? That made me so pissed off that I told her to fuck off and I just left early.

I took the advice of someone and decided to go to planned parenthood and just like that I have officially begun my journey. Kinda wish I'd done this sooner, I could've been 3 months along by now if I hadn't tried to go through my therapist like a dumbass. Shame though, I did like her, she seemed nice for a long time but I don't think I can continue to see her anymore if she thinks after all I've told her that I'm in any way at risk of "de-transitioning".

Moral of the story kids, do DIY. It's better to ask for forgiveness than wait for permission. Also be really careful how you choose your therapists, they might seem to understand you but they can screw you over in the last second.

Transfem tomboys rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

That seems shitty (also FYI trap is a nasty word). I'm not doing that at all. I try and be very clear that I'm a girl. A masculine girl who likes sports, cars, and getting dirty but a girl no less.

Transfem tomboys rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 52 points 3 months ago (5 children)

It means AMAB. Best way to remember is that trans terminology describes identities we identify with, or direction of transition. So trans women are women, and transfem (transfeminine) means feminine or feminizing.

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We're a rare breed I guess (i.imgur.com)

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Transfem tomboys rule (i.imgur.com)

submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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(I'm a transfem tomboy btw)

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Transfem tomboys rule (i.imgur.com)

submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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(I'm a transfem tomboy btw)

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[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 17 points 3 months ago

As one of those trans girls who loves her dick, this would make me very sad.

Please don't take away my girlcock 😭

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[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 10 points 3 months ago

I'm not forced to remain friends with any of them and I won't I'm cutting each and every one of them off. If they can't handle me being trans and being a girl now they can fuck right off.