martine

joined 2 years ago
[–] martine@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why am I getting Christian Mingle from this

[–] martine@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Pillow Prince(ss) looking for a Sugar Parent

[–] martine@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

Oh this is for sure the teaser pic for his OnlyPaws

[–] martine@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A fool on a fool's errand 😹

[–] martine@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

This one got an actual lol from me

[–] martine@lemm.ee 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My little blue point was a foster! Idk how someone could have abandoned this precious baby at 2 weeks.

Sansa is so beautiful and majestic! 💖

[–] martine@lemm.ee 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

These would definitely be Oliver's.

Tinder

Grindr

Bumble

 

And which app(s) would they be on?

[–] martine@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

"they use their paws as tongues on us!"

[–] martine@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago

Loling at the Predator sounds, it's so true. I think she is definitely having a conversation with you!

[–] martine@lemm.ee 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Especially after running to the carpet 😅

[–] martine@lemm.ee 10 points 1 week ago

Percy 🥹 that is indeed very cute. He's communicating!

[–] martine@lemm.ee 43 points 1 week ago

For Oliver, his bedtime routine. Once he thinks I'm getting ready to go to bed, he'll sit by the stairs. Once I get there, he runs as fast as he can up the stairs and then looks behind him to make sure I'm still coming. Then he runs to the bedroom, again stopping and looking. Then when I go to the bathroom he runs back out of the bedroom to join me while I pee and brush my teeth–I leave the door cracked for him and he pushes in with his head. While I'm getting ready he skitters in and out of the bathroom being annoyed with me. Then finally when I go towards the bedroom he runs and does a flying leap into the bed. (Which means that sometimes when my partner is already in bed he lands right on his dick 😅). He runs over to my side of the bed and lays down and then I slither my way in. I'm a side sleeper, so I turn over and get myself tucked all in and comfy. And then he goes up to sit on my butt like it's his little kitty cat sofa.

He doesn't sleep with us all night but he almost always comes to bed with me and I just love that he has his little routine and that I'm part of it. 🥹

 

Or maybe top three if you can't choose (none of us can choose)

 

How did they come in to your life, what was your connection like, what made them different from other cats? Are they still with you, if not how do you cope with the loss? Photos appreciated too obvs.

 

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Edit: omg everyone please reply to each other with suggested additional nicknames

 

volume on for little slurps and smacks (and some light background tv noise, sorry)

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Big mlem (imgur.com)
 

I know I'm not the only queer person who has struggled with substance abuse – it's not uncommon in our community because of the chronic trauma so many of us do and have experience/d from our families, friends, and society at large.

I make art based on my experiences as a queer sober person and the joy it has brought to my life. If you want to take a look, it’s on Instagram and I also recently duplicated it to Pixelfed (federated photo-sharing community).

https://instagram.com/soberandfruity https://pixelfed.social/soberandfruity

I'm working on a piece right now about alcohol companies rainbow-washing for pride. I think they are aware of the alcohol abuse in our community and it sucks. But it also is important to be represented in society, which is, at the moment, capitalism.

I welcome DMs from anyone who wants to talk about their drinking if they are worried it's problematic, or just want to talk. I've been sober for over three years :)

Disclaimer: Many people, including queer people, are able to drink in a way that is not disordered or unhealthy for them. I don't judge anyone who drinks!

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