spujb

joined 1 year ago
[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 16 hours ago

find new ways to enjoy or prepare fresh fruits and veggies, get cardiovascular exercise, bonus points if in the sun for vitamin d, avoid stress when possible, sleep 7 hours when possible, avoid smoking, alcohol in excess, and other substances that put strain on your body. take care of yourself emotionally and find time to be with people you love. drink water!

no one will be able to do all of these perfectly always and it is normal to struggle attain most or even any. but they are more precise and beneficial targets than “gain or lose weight” and they have much more immediate and noticeable outcomes :)

 
[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Conversely, though, remember that unhealthy nutritional choices can mess with your immunity, cause inflammation, and really screw with your day-to-day energy and sleep. Nutrition is always a story performed on a much more complicated stage than weight=calories in - calories out! (Though that equation is a good signpost that guides the plot.) See https://lemmy.cafe/comment/9956540

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 8 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (6 children)

To ammend even further: Health neither stops nor starts at weight in almost any case. Far better strategies for self care will instead look at:

  • Cardiovascular fitness (resting heart rate, blood pressure, etc)
  • Energy levels, blood sugar and sleep
  • Immunity, inflammation, stress

More broad attention to these three rough categories is going to be way more positive than worrying about the single metric of weight or BMI. Doctors may recommend a raise or lowering of weight, but for ALMOST EVERY person that’s only as a means to the end of improving one or more of the broader cardio, energy, and immunity mechanisms.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 6 points 23 hours ago

appreciate your consistent and calm attitude to such a frustrating and consistent onslaught of criticism ada, as always <3

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

this is interesting and i think it would be valuable to have discourse about this outside of distasteful characters, thanks for bringing it to attention

my initial thoughts are “what does mainstream mean lol” and “why six letters” and “what about languages that don’t use the roman alphabet”

but i appreciate the stance of respect and pragmatism this seems to come from so that’s nice

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 day ago

My understanding is that this move can only be appropriately considered through the lens of the aesthetics of maintaining an effective culture war.

Like the racially charged tirades against “welfare queens” of the past, this pretends to deal with income inequality on a level that blames the victim only, while doing nothing for the systemic factors that create and maintain junk food dependency.

It’s like a school or church entity attempting to deal with widespread sexual abuse by making and enforcing dress codes on potential victims.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 1 day ago

gripping analytical retort from queer and youth ally powerhouse efreetsk here, more at 8

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 29 points 1 day ago

good thing it wasn’t (source: i was the third party recipient of those shared DMs; they were fully irrelevant to admin/mod action, abusive or otherwise)

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 30 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Careful not to mythologize the characters of people who have just hurt others.

With 100+ comments already this is probably a message delivered too late, but if you are reading this be aware that comments here that digress away from simply keeping history into ogling and ridiculing serve only to feed the needs of a user who already has alt accounts drifting in as we speak.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 8 points 2 days ago

hmm yeah that's probably normal and fine! nothing to see there.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 2 days ago

el caballo de Troya

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 15 points 2 days ago

everyone getting so serious over a worm joke i mean i appreciate it but worms 🪱 lol worms

 
 
 
 

There’s definitely some additional nuance (like a pronouns in bio/username situation) but this should cover the broad needs of anyone who is approaching this with good faith.

 

The community’s sidebar doesn’t list a single rule so I don’t know how they expect to get users to fall in line if it’s completely unspoken.

Anyway this is a rare case of a very tiny community where no one is getting hurt so it’s not a huge deal. But if you plan on discussing news using any kind of acronym I guess don’t go there lmao.

Thoughts welcome! Am I missing something?

 

For some reason whenever someone posts any news about Pixelfed one of the top comments is usually along the lines of “no dark mode, no use.” Boy do I have good news for those users!

Like the rest of the Fediverse, and unlike corporate media, there are multiple apps you can use! Examples:

This is also useful for users who have qualms about the Pixelfed dev’s more… distasteful? behavior (example I found today) and don’t rock with rewarding it, kind of like how a lot of Lemmy users might block or defederate the flagship .ml instance.

 
 
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