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What's the hardest thing you had to come to terms with? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 days ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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For me it was the fact that I would always be slower than everyone else and I would have to put in twice the effort.

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[–] Tupper@reddthat.com 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Loss of friendships can be the result of very minor events that triggered someone or were not communicated well. This does not mean that anyone is necessarily “bad” or lacks care for the world. That can be true but it is not always true. The hardest thing to come to terms with is that despite the above in many cases there is no way back to friendship with that person

[–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

“Friends come in and out of your life like busboys in a restaurant, did you ever notice that?”

Stephen King