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What are some good coping strategies for moving on and dealing with constant abuse? (thelemmy.club)

submitted 21 hours ago by permathrowaway@thelemmy.club to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Bullied and constantly abused, breaking away finally. Nothing’s happening now and I won’t let it, but I’m badly hurt by these people who don’t even feel guilty or care because they say I’m disgusting.

I’m going to keep them out of sight, out of mind, but it’s easier said than done.

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[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

From experience: people tend to abuse others and take that for granted. Some will realize they fucked up. Some will try to manipulate you back into the abusive situation. Some will get mad their possession (you) is disobeying them and will try to hurt you.

Hope you can find your way to the peace you deserve.