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Many anti lgbt people are careful with what they say, and don't say or do anything overtly anti. What are some subtle signs?

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[–] earlgrey0@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The “I just don’t understand…” crowd. I have yet to meet anyone who legitimately did not understand why a person would want to be called their preferred name, or why someone would want to marry who they love. It seems to just be a way to feel out if the person they’re talking to is amenable to list to their “discomfort” with whichever group they are referring to.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 13 points 2 days ago

That's a really good point, everyone understands "It's Vicky not Victoria" so pronouns aren't hard to grasp