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Don't try to do it all, and if you do, know that you're not a failure just because you can't be good at everything. There aren't enough hours in the day to be fit and healthy, a good mother and partner, excel in your career, have a clean home, and have a thriving social life. Everyone that tells you you can have all those things either has staff helping them achieving each of those goals or is selling you a lie.
Celebrate your wins.
Totally agree. We're expected to hit impossible standards, and so many people just fake having all of these things. It's like the phrase "I hope one day your life is as good as you pretend it is on facebook"
I wish someone had told me this when I was young. It's such good advice 🤍