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I genuinely don't know where the most misogyny is here. (www.youtube.com)
submitted 4 days ago by ZDL@lazysoci.al to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Is it in the video? Or in the comments?

This video is a hot mess from all angles.

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[–] hazl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The comments seem pretty reasonable from what I can tell. People don't want to drop the activities that bring them joy on the advice of some YouTube click farmer. The real question is why we're boosting their traffic. I'm gonna use my flu boredom as my excuse.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Since you watched it, what are the 15 hobbies?

Edit: she has a list. It's

Comic books, cosplay, debating, drinking, MTG, anime, makeup, crypto, cigars, clubbing, weed, toy collecting, online arguing, porn and gambling.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

There was a lot of gender essentialism and straight-up misogyny in the comments when I flicked through them quickly. Some that stood out for me:

  • a lot of times, your hobby doesn't nag at you
  • They don't hate your hobbies, they hate the feeling of losing control over you.
  • You don't get to choose what I do in my spare time, just like I don't get to choose your collection of shoes.
  • The main hobby women hate about men is anything that brings him joy and happiness.
  • My uncle used to say: "If it's got breasts or tyres, it's nothing but trouble". Wise man.

And that's from a quick skim. I really haven't the courage to do a deep dive.

[–] hazl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 days ago

I'm sorry you dove as deep as you did. I think those comments are precisely the kind of "discussion" that the video was intending to produce though. Basically any content addressed at one gender regarding the supposed norms of the other just strikes me as softcore rage bait. "Ladies, here are 5 things" k bye.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"If it's got breasts or tyres, it's nothing but trouble"

Cries in boat

[–] foxglove@lazysoci.al 3 points 3 days ago

hi ouRKaoS! Thanks for your comment, but this community is women-only and has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don't comment any further. Thank you and hope you understand 💛