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This is really a monumental societal change.

3rd spaces are nearly completely destroyed, and online seems to be the main option for ppl now.

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[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

right... I can't meet anyone for the life of me and be damned if I give a rats ass about even attempting to meet someone online. it's a ceaspool of distrust, lies and fake garbage online. not a good way to meet anyone tbh..

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hopefully third spaces make a strong comeback, which would be far easier in socialism.

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I just want somewhere that I can put my personal wall down again. that won't happen on the internet where I won't ever know the recipient in a trustworthy way.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's fair! I've found organizing work to be a good way to connect with people IRL, maybe do something similar? A hobbyist group, maybe?

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think I should volunteer.. I'm only happy when doing for others. I always disregard myself and when there's no others, I suffer.

thank you.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

That sounds great for you! There are a lot of cool orgs or charities that would love to have more help!