okmatewanker

You go to a healthcare facility to receive healthcare, not to get to know the staff. They’re not your friends.

Not at all what I was talking about lol. I won't go into specifics but it was relevant to what he was recommending that I do.

My point was, people in positions of authority sometimes take the attitude that the people "under" them need to just accept that they have no privacy / dignity / safety even about sensitive or emotional matters. Which, I kind of get it, it's important to be truthful to your doctor even if it's some kind of sensitive matter. To a certain extent it's just business. But, at the same time, it sometimes leads them to be totally unsympathetic to the human side or approach things in an unproductive manner, for example expecting someone they met 30 seconds ago to be comfortable saying "Well how it got there is I stuck a BBQ sauce bottle up my ass on purpose because I'm a fucking depraved pervert and I love to do wanking butt stuff on my own time, last week I did a plunger and a toilet brush" and get surprised when there's any level of hesitation about that response.