Whatever level of SA you've experienced it wasn't your fault, and we support you.
this post was submitted on 21 Oct 2025
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Unless it reaches a courtroom. Then, if you were wearing a microdress, the jury will more likely than not acquit. Whereas if you were wearing something conservative there's a small, but measurable chance they will convict.
(Just for clarity: the above is a very sarcastic observation about how even if you're "dressed right" juries tend to blame women.)
No such thing as dressed right.
Can't say I would trust an all female jury to not be biased and blame the victim. If the victim's apparel wasn't a factor, they will find another factor.
Ayup. There's a reason why survivors often choose not to press charges.
Get publicly humiliated ... and still don't get justice.
Publicly humiliated, no justice, then the fact that the perpetrator got away is used as "proof" that you are a conniving woman that wanted revenge on a man.
That's true.
It can happen at work too. Sexual relationship then female gets fired. Or female gets sexually harassed and she gets fired for standing up for herself. It is so common.