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I’ve had a hard time landing and keeping jobs despite having more than enough skill to go around. What have your experiences been? I think I just need to get better at selling myself and working with others

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[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 days ago

Terrible, dehumanizing, awefull. The entire process of applying for jobs is one of the absolute worst things society ever made me do.

I did in the end find a good safe job with an open minded manager that respects me and my colleague for our individual expertise and accomplishments.

I am not paid well, there are plenty of grossly better paying jobs within my industry. I don’t care. I know that was the compromise for job security and to me highly valued stability.

I am never doing that ordeal again. I am never applying elsewhere. They would need to drag me from the desk i have now. And they better find me another in house function to do because i am showing up to do my work the next day, wether they keep paying me or not.

(I work in the logistical background of a non profit IT helpdesk, with plenty of freedom, input in our procedures, room to script/program tools that benefit coworkers)

[–] dinckelman@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] getoffthedrugsdude@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 days ago

Hahaha, no.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago

I gave up and have been trying to generate my own income. In part because the job market is trash but also because the thought of slaving away for somebody else's millions makes me physically ill.

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's totally dried up. A couple of years ago, I had recruiters reaching out to me, and was making it pretty far through the interview process before getting tossed aside in the last step. Often the reasons for getting passed over were pretty weak at the time, but now no one's talking to me at all.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Daym. How are you surviving?

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I currently have a job. One I've been trying to get out of for years, where no one will tell anyone what they want, and just gesture broadly towards abstract-sounding goals which can all be rephrased as "sell more", even though I am not in sales.

People will often tell those who are unemployed that being unployed is the reason they're not getting hired - that people want to hire those who are currently working - but that doesn't seem to be true. Not in my experience, at least. And not since everyone decided to pretend the whole fever dream of a perpetual-lockdoen economy never happened.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago

Cheers. Looks like you're stuck in a bullshit job. I wish you luck in your search.

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 days ago

You know what keeps coming up in my saved searches? Gubmint contract jobs. Yeah... I don't see that panning out any time soon.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 days ago

It depends on what you are looking for