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[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Such Small Hands - La Dispute

I think I saw you in my sleep, DARLING

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[–] Evoliddaw@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago
[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

Live - Lightning Crashes

People would get into it, but it would definitely kill the vibes before then.

[–] dariusj18@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Summer loving

[–] Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org 1 points 6 days ago

Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] Sprinks@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In the arms of an angel....

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 10 points 1 week ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

[–] Nusm@yall.theatl.social 19 points 1 week ago (4 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

This is definitely the wrong answer.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 4 points 1 week ago

Wouldn't work as I'd be singing along

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[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)
[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

That's a sing-along song in our local bar, lol!

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[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Bloodhound Gang - A Lapdance Is So Much Better When the Stripper is Crying

https://m.soundcloud.com/bloodhound-gang/a-lap-dance-is-so-much-better

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[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 17 points 1 week ago
[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 15 points 1 week ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

If you're in Scotland when you do this people will sing along with you

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

I repeat the last song.

Or anything from an obscure screamo band.

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Baby Shark, followed by Wonderwall.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@lemm.ee 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

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[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

Somebody that i used to know

[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Great Gig in The Sky by Pink Floyd.

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[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

Goodbye my Lover by James Blunt would work to kill a hyped up mood.

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago
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[–] RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

"Loving You" as Im a guy who cannot sing and absolutely does not have Minnie Ripperton's range. It would be horrific and I would lean into it with all my might.

https://youtu.be/9I3UTG1dSTc

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Isn't that just karaoke?

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] brap@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Alice’s restaurant- Arlo Guthrie

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

If that kills the vibe, you got the wrong crowd.

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[–] KammicRelief@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Weird Al.

Or Eminem.

Or Weird Al's Eminem parody.

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[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

We Are the World which might be fine if everyone in the bar was fifty-plus, but wouldn't work today.

[–] tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

Dead puppies

[–] badhops@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bad Manners - Special Brew Singing to my wife

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[–] jwt@programming.dev 4 points 1 week ago
[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Woman Is The N***** Of The World

(Although anything by John Lennon would probably work lol)

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[–] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saëns

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 1 points 6 days ago

I WOULD OFTEN GO THERE

TO THE TINY CHURCH THERE

[–] mercano@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

“Memories” from Cats

the cure - killing an arab

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