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[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 34 minutes ago

The spez protests led to a lot of people sharing alternatives on Reddit and when I heard there was an open source alternative, checked it out and saw posts about Linux and beans I knew I'd never go back.

[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 7 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I left after they banned third party apps. During me testing third party apps for the first time, i have found out that reddit was getting rid of them. I didnt want to use a platform owned by a company that was willing to make these kinds of changes

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 2 points 1 hour ago

Same. Rip rif. Never logged back in. Man I miss grimdank though. O well.

[–] arifinhiding@feddit.org 1 points 24 minutes ago

Lemmy has a variety of fresh opinions, and I like how everyone has different experiences. For example, I hardly see a unified opinion on what people think of Gen-Xers, Millenials, Gen Z and Gen Alpha. They seem well-distributed and for the most part, there's less of those subtle reddit-style "generalizations" here. I typically look for internet spaces that emulate reality, and I think Lemmy does that well.

[–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 49 minutes ago)

I knew about Lemmy, but didn't migrate until months after drama in Reddit.

I got permabanned from the CasualUK sub for insulting boomers. In a response to the query of the word being a slur, as one person on Twitter felt picked on, I said the ones that act like the stereotype (aka self-absorbed, demeaning others) deserve the nickname the stereotype was given. I was banned for 'identity-based hate' despite the fact that being an asshole to anyone younger than you is not an identity.

I also got banned from GirlGamers for questioning the authorities, which made me realise that some mods really are pricks who rule the subs by removing people that they don't agree with, and I decided that I didn't want to reside in a site where moderators are borderline fascist, no matter how wholesome the other users are.

Someone asked if it's worth avoiding media because you don't agree with the creator. I voiced my opinion, saying that I don't think so, as long as the media makes you happy. I referred to a few examples, including "my love for the Wizarding World, despite its creator being rather toxic". This got removed for 'mentioning Hogwarts Legacy', VERY loosely tying my comment with a sub rule. I reposted the comment twice, once omitting the Wizarding World, and once a copy of the original, adding "(not the game, the whole franchise, power tripping mods!)" which resulted in a three day ban. (For those who don't know, the Wizarding World means the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. This is a very large media franchise spanning a significant more mediums than one game. There are seven more games, in fact). I contacted the mod team, and they said I cannot question them, permabanned me from GirlGamers, and blocked me for thirty days, as if that wins the disagreement.

This kind of leadership, and the controversy over Reddit becoming a walled garden of censorship and run like a corporate cash cow, ended my support. I deleted my account and cut ties emotionally with the communities there.

[–] wildcardology@lemmy.world 8 points 4 hours ago

I didn't wait for a ban. Bailed out during the appocalypse.

[–] rosco385@lemm.ee 12 points 5 hours ago

I stopped visiting reddit when they started screwing around with API access. I'm glad I didn't wait in the hopes the inevitable wouldn't happen.

[–] essell@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago

I am the one who bans

[–] zecg@lemmy.world 23 points 6 hours ago

It's not a matter of liking more, reddit was dead for me when they fucked their api. Lemmy still needs content, but the ux is wastly superior

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 29 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

I jumped off voluntarily a little over a year ago when spez didn't like third party apps anymore and reddit went public.

Edit: damn it's almost been 2 years on lemmy. What a fucking ride

Edit: I can't believe cm0002 copied your exact same post

https://lemm.ee/post/60400579

[–] urquell@lemm.ee 4 points 6 hours ago

Fuck /u/spez

[–] hmmm@sh.itjust.works 12 points 7 hours ago

Lemmy more.

[–] Sauvandu60@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 hours ago

I stopped using reddit after i get banned for unknown reason years ago, so i move to lemmy.

[–] oakward@feddit.org 8 points 6 hours ago

I was never banned or even warned. Reddit is an American company who is catering to the oligarchy. While before the USA was a seemingly friendly country to other democracies, this is not the case anymore. A majority of their population is either voting for agression or is complicit by inaction. Adding content to USA social media is only increasing their reach. Reddit used to be nice but Lemmy is a better alternative anyway.

[–] truite@jlai.lu 4 points 5 hours ago

I'm not banned because I almost never post or log in reddit, but I'm still going. There are communities I didn't find here. But I try to participate more here.

[–] rational_lib@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Reddit had its advantages but when they forced everyone to have r/all as a default sub I feel like the content really started going downhill and all the subs started becoming the same. Then when the API thing happened I realized it wasn't going to get better, they were determined to become Facebook.

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

I like Lemmy. Reddit is too corporate now

[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 6 points 7 hours ago

Wasn't banned. left due to Corporatism.

[–] overload@sopuli.xyz 5 points 7 hours ago

The API killing my preferred third party app did it for me. And the blatant astroturfing/karma farming also meant that it wasn't a good experience on there.

I will say though, the Reddit hivemind effect is still present on Lemmy. Though I think there's less tepid posts to raise account karma here.

[–] Fingolfinz@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

I like lemmy more. There is no real permaban on reddit btw. I’ve been “permabanned” like 20 times on there

[–] Sprawl@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

I want to use Lemmy more but the content just isn’t enough yet especially on niche topics and hobbies. I do try to come here for the “front page” over Reddit, since those posts on Reddit get so many replies you ain’t reading them all anyways.

But when it’s time to talk World of Warcraft, for example, Lemmy is mostly dead.

[–] MasterFlamingo@lemm.ee 3 points 5 hours ago

Basically, this is the same for me as well. I like Lemmy but there’s just not enough content yet and that’s OK but until then I’m gonna naturally gravitate to other social media until more staff is able to transition over. Half of the post seems to be reddit reposts.

[–] PixelPilgrim@lemmings.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Got banned on Reddit years ago and I've been on Lemmy for a month

[–] 0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 hours ago

At the very least there's less "you should be supporting my sides' genocide and it's your fault my country is 'openly' evil now. we were hiding it and profiting off of it so well" on lemmy.

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 2 points 6 hours ago

Lemmy is my best friend now.

[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

I still have my reddit account, although with all posts and comments first turned into Fuck spez and the deleted. I tried Lemmy first 2 years ago, but the Italian instance is just a mirror bot farm. I gave lw a chance now and I am hooked.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 77 points 13 hours ago (5 children)

I came voluntarily after the third party app debacle. I never even used a third party app, it had just gotten so ridiculous that when moderators were putting together a blackout in protest, I made the decision that's when I was leaving and never returning, so that's what I did.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 15 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I used Redd is Fun for years, even paid for the ad free version. Moved to Boost as the API debacle as the wave slowly started killing aps. Tried the official app for 2.5 seconds & hated it.

Moved to Lemmy & been loving it since.

[–] kn33@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I still use reddit on desktop, but it's all Lemmy on mobile thanks to Boost.

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[–] oliver@lemmy.midgardmates.com 4 points 7 hours ago

Already planned to leave after they cut off third party apps and finally made the move recently due to the CEO bowing for M*sk and deleting unwanted content. Was already looking at Lemmy and finally set up my instance and made the move - and it works for me.

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

I left with the API issues. As far as I know my account is still in good standing.

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[–] EaterOfLentils@programming.dev 5 points 8 hours ago

Permabanned for being mean to Elon.

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 86 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

I just like Lemmy more. No NFTs, or Karma meaning anything. It feels like it was plucked from an older time.

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 5 hours ago
[–] NightCrawlerProMax@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

I think most people have joined Lemmy cuz they were banned on Reddit. Probably ended up here after searching for “Reddit alternatives” after they were banned.

[–] Shootingstarrz17@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

I left Reddit after they bent the knee to M*sk.

[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I still have Reddit where I post to r/Vancouver and r/Worldbuilding, mainly because Lemmy doesn't really have active communities for those where new stuff gets posted every day. Once Lemmy gets large enough (which I believe it will) for those communities to become active I'll probably stop posting to Reddit. Or if they get rid of the old UI. Whichever comes first.

[–] ritsku@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago

Got sick of seeing the same anger farming shit every day, then found out about the luigi censorship and just left. Honestly best choice. I'm enjoying lemmy so far, and the control I have over my experience.

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 9 points 9 hours ago

Left due to the API stuff due to Apollo getting axed. Loved that Christian recorded their calls and exposed how crappy they were for blaming things on him. Fun drama, but I left and never looked back.

It’s still a bit of an echo chamber of sheep in here but I haven’t really tried different servers to find like minded ppl. I like the mod of the server I’m on and that’s cool for me for now.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 6 points 8 hours ago

I deleted reddit after the CEO made shitty decisions. So only Lemmy. So far it has been a much better experience.

[–] Cocopanda@futurology.today 1 points 5 hours ago

Banned. It’s been 4 years. It’s nice to talk to folks again. I deleted my FB recently to. No point arguing with literal bots.

[–] teawrecks@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

i banned my subconcious thoughts as if pre-deporting them.

left reddit due to nazis

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 46 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Nope, not banned, chose to leave. Realized most of my anxiety and fear were due to Reddit's algorithm amping up my issues.

Was banned from a couple of subs for promoting Lemmy though.

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[–] dlsloop@lemm.ee 39 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

I just joined Lemmy today. I found out about it through a piracy site of all things. If it were viable I would replace everything in my life with open-source alternatives. I'm tired of companies getting greedy and ruining the things I love.

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[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 36 points 13 hours ago (3 children)
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[–] Phantom_Engineer@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 hours ago

Little of A, little of B. For the most part I'm allowed on Reddit and still even use it occasionally (gasp!), but occasionally I run into a sub I'm banned from without any reason given. I must have engaged in wrongthink or posted in a no-no sub or something, because often they're subs where I have little to no activity in the first place. Unfortunately, there's no way to get a list of all the subs you're banned from, so I don't know if it's just a few wackos or an actually significant chunk of the sight.

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