The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

Be kind
Ask people what they think, and why
Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility (EDIT: no, this is not specifically referring to Nazis. I get it, they're the first thing that comes to mind. I'm not telling you to approve of Nazis I'm just saying be kind to your fellow lemmites)
Engage sincerely
Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say
Make this small space worth being in

A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 hour ago

Speaking past each other is IMO the biggest source of friction and division on the fediverse.

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

I have mysteriously vanished for like 2 or so months now (which is a good thing, please take breaks from the internet every once in a while), I don't really remember NOT being kind here.

And this post reminds me of why Lemmy is a good place to begin with.

[–] SourGumGum@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

Best I can do is rewind.

[–] Alborlin@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago

Okay I agree, so let's start from Linux related any post, tell them if somebody asks a problem don't tell them just install mint , or how one is crazy because they are facing the problems in Linux or if you are not using Linux what idiot are you. I stopped participating because

Linux dude bros are just idiots troubling me
I can't find content which is though not niche is just is plain not news or Linux
It's very confusing to use fedverse as I don't know of i can go all subs via my boost app or do i need something else , if so where to access them.

So let's make it ACCESSIBLE, NON DERAGORTY FOR ANON LINUX USERS ALSO

[–] TanteRegenbogen@feddit.org 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Tell that to the people who make a dozen sockpuppet accounts to insult me just because I disagreed with them.

[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Second best thing you can go is to report unkind people.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Yeah, try reporting behavior mods themselves are aware and approve of LMAO 🤣

[–] Rolive@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 10 hours ago

This applies to real life as well. Results may vary.

[–] PantanoPete@lemmy.zip 9 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

So I can't be myself?

[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 2 points 3 hours ago

No. But you can work on yourself to become a nicer, better person and we will support you all the way. Then, you will be allow to be yourself.

With love,
Pseudo

[–] Wiz@midwest.social 1 points 3 hours ago

Pete, we know you're a big softie inside.

[–] Sir_Simon_Spamalot@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

No. You can go to hell!

[–] spicehoarder@lemm.ee 24 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Fuck you!

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[–] GooberEar@lemmy.wtf 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

On the one hand, yes, yes, yes, absolutely.

On the other hand, way too often people are absolutely vile here and nobody sticks up for themselves or for others. Really a shame that r-word-it bullshit behavior is often times totally accepted and approved and even rewarded here.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Highly regarded behavior has been an internet staple for decades

[–] Eknz@lemmy.eknz.org 8 points 14 hours ago (5 children)

Sometimes being kind doesn't necessarily mean being nice.

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