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[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 6 points 23 hours ago

Salty air, leather, books, a wet or dry forest, my cat's fur, fresh bread, my homemade vanilla, coconut scented anything, woodsmoke, fresh snow, & my boo ❤️

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[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 23 hours ago

Cedar. There's nothing like pulling a blanket out of a cedar chest and surrounding yourself in it.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (13 children)

Rain, and then a thunderstorm.

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[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Pizza cooking in the oven. Fresh laundry. Slight electrical warm smell of a heater (not burning). Petrichor mixed with city smells. Smell of asphalt in the sun (takes me back to childhood and drawing with chalk with a childhood friend).

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 23 hours ago

That's a really nice memory 😀

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 27 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The smell of minced garlic and onion as they're cooking.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've heard that some restaurants do this the first thing in the morning just to attract customers.

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[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 10 points 1 day ago
[–] multicolorKnight@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Coffee. Fresh roasted coffee smells heavenly.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 21 hours ago

Allll of my partner. Mmmmm.

[–] angelmountain@feddit.nl 4 points 23 hours ago

2-stroke mopeds

[–] Creat@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 day ago

The smell of freshly cooked rice.

[–] Frostbeard@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago

Ocean pine forest on warm summer days when walking to the sea side/beach.

Fresh bread just out of the oven

That crisp smell of cold fall days, just shy of frost.

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 14 points 1 day ago

Cut grass, gas/petrol, books.. lots of smells really. Some weirder than others :3

Since it's the time for planting tomatoes where I live, I'll also point them out as smelling nice

[–] brap@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Unburned rolling tobacco in the pack, fresh cut evergreen, a just-opened pack of post-it notes, petrol, the oily/greasy smell of a machine shop, charcoal barbecue.

[–] RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you like Scotch or Mezcal?

[–] brap@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seems like you would based on the descriptiors you chose

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Cats. Their natural oils smell like fresh laundry!

[–] nodeco@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

The many smells of forests, seaweed when it washes up on the beach, new steam deck vent and video rental stores, I guess I'll never smell the last one again though. I know there are candles that are made to mimic them but they are too expensive.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 6 points 1 day ago

The smell of fresh tea when the package is opened.

"Stinky tofu" when passing the street carts selling it.

Freshly-made lard-cooked french fries.

A "strong-scented" baijiu.

A good Indian restaurant, that moment you walk inside and breath.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I love sweet food smells! Vanilla, cinnamon, candyfloss and things like that. My favourite smell of all time is cookies baking.

Have you ever toasted sugar? I have recently powdered toasted vanilla sugar I made and it smells incredible (toast first, then vanilla, then powder in food processor)

[–] JohnnyCanuck@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 day ago

Well I didn't want to boast but I do smell lovely

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Coming into the house when it is very cold and snowy outside and smelling bread baking in the oven.

[–] Byakhee@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not smelled it since the 80s, but: New Starwars Figures

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 4 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

My husband collects action figures. There are ones that don't have much of a smell. And then there are ones that 'bout knock us over with an offputting chemically smell, probably from the type of plastic or paint or both.

[–] astrsk@fedia.io 6 points 1 day ago

Imminent snow, petrichor, the damp forest on a warm afternoon, sawdust/cut wood, ozone during/after thunderstorm, after a fireworks show (burned black powder).

[–] YungOnions@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Real leather, freshly cut wood, most fragrant flowers (especially Lillies, Jasmine, Sweet Peas and Roses), petrichor, garlic, freshly cut grass

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Marijuana. And by association, dead skunk (it smells like strong weed/strong weed smells like dead skunk 🤷🏻‍♂️)

Light BO. A day after sweating at work, great. If you haven't bathed in a week; 🤮

Whatever the Rock is cooking.

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] HamsterRage@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Learned a new word today, thanks. Yes.

[–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Sun bathed skin, forests(both the humid ones and the dry herby ones), baked bread, lily of the valley flowers, and many other flowers.

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