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[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Lemmy users project their toxicity towards Reddit. This place can be quite hostile if you don't echo the 'correct' ideals.

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[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago

I'm frustrated more people are complacent with the state of the world, including myself.

[–] 18107@aussie.zone 20 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Abortion should be mandatory.

People keep arguing over whether abortion should be legal or not, but my opinion is that it should be forced on everyone whether they want it or not. Late term abortions up to 100 years after birth should also be considered for inclusion in this rule.

One of my favourite activities is finding controversial opinions, then taking an opinion so extreme that it makes everyone else look like a centrist.

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[–] LuckyPierre@lemm.ee 25 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I prefer rap music by white artists because it's less likely to feature the N word.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

That isn't just an unpopular opinion, but a very interesting one. Bravo.

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[–] GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

I think 10 years ago this would've been unpopular, but today maybe not so much:

systemd is great software. I don't use distros that refuse to ship it. Especially the init system. Thanks, Lennart!

[–] DonaldJMusk@lemmy.today 35 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Desktop computers are way better and more fun than using phone for browsing, wikipedia, news, and Lemmy

I rarely use my phone for anything other than texting. I like using my desktop computer to browse and post.

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[–] iowagneiss@midwest.social 74 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

Graveyards are a disgusting waste of space. Their existence communicates to society that many dead people are more entitled to space on this Earth than some living people will ever have.

[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

From everything I read in this thread… you won.

Graveyards don’t exist for the dead, they are a place where living people can mourn the loss of the dead person and remember older days.

[–] iowagneiss@midwest.social 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I realize they're not really for the dead, but the living decide that their dead bodies are entitled to more space than some living. Plots cost thousands of dollars. We ostracize the unhoused. Our priorities are broken, and graveyards are yet another thing for those "with" that those "without" will not have.

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[–] LuckyPierre@lemm.ee 13 points 2 days ago

Graveyards don't exist for the dead.

They exist for both relatives to mourn, and the wider populace who value the perspective on their own problems that graveyards provide. They're also normally a peaceful place in an often unpeaceful world, much as urban green spaces.

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[–] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Black liquorice tastes good

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[–] lowered_lifted@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 days ago

too many dudes in this thread thinking eugenics and pedophilia are unpopular. They're very popular and that's a very bad thing

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Jack black isn't funny at all. He's worse, incredibly fucking irritating and annoying and a try hard. He epitomizes mainstream US "comedy"; obvious, loud, overstating the delivery of jokes with overwrought physical humor. He and Horatio Sanz must have studied under the same Sithlord. Can't stand him.

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[–] DonaldJMusk@lemmy.today 19 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Most people on Lemmy aren’t as kind or open-minded as they like to appear. There’s plenty of hate here, but it gets excused because they believe they’re “on the correct side.”

tl;dr: You’re just as hateful and close-minded as the people you claim to be fighting. Same behavior, different colored hat.

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ah, the ol' "I have shit opinions and people told me so"

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[–] MuskyMelon@lemmy.world 90 points 3 days ago (5 children)

The purpose of government is to take care of the people. I'd rather pay more taxes to make sure my fellow men are fed, clothed, sheltered, educated and cared for because it improves security for my loved ones.

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[–] IAmJacksRage@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)
  • Black is a color!!
  • Dolphins are fish!!
[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

These threads always attract a variety of reactionary opinions

[edit] whoops, didn't mean to reply. Yours were not the reactionary opinions lol. after the revolution, all tetrapods will rightly be understood to be fish

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[–] MdPhoenix@lemm.ee 14 points 2 days ago (3 children)

The Beatles suck.
The Eagles are not as amazing as everyone thinks.

[–] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

I didn't really like the Beatles until I started listening to all the non-#1 hit songs.

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[–] FarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.world 53 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

I find it difficult to respect the way we exist in society. Most of us in the west enjoy what we have because someone elsewhere is being exploited. The general pride and vanity we have is unjustified and we should be using that power for good instead. We are focused on the ~~right~~ wrong things.

You could say that this opinion isn’t unpopular, but just try bringing it up in conversation. Many don’t want to know.

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[–] ReverendIrreverence@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (21 children)

Becoming a parent is not a right, it is a privilege (I guess). You need a license to get married, drive, hunt or fish, your dog needs one. There should be some sort of class and background check you must pass before being allowed to procreate. Just the basics like: this is the level of care and support this small helpless mammal needs to be healthy and grow to maturity. This is how much, minimum, that quality upbringing will cost and do you meet that bare minimum level of competence and income to raise a healthy baby.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is an extremely popular opinion among those who've not unpacked that what you're describing is eugenics

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[–] _Vedr@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Who decides who can pro-create? What is the criteria?

I don't see a scenario where this works out well.

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[–] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

The problem is that then you need the government's permission to procreate. There's always the valid concern that the government would prevent you from having children to remove some undesirable trait from the population and justify it as being a danger to a child. I know you described basic competency skills, but there would always exist a very credible threat of it being politicized.

In fact, this already happens for things like queer couples being rejected for adopting children or the Uyghur population being quietly genocided in China. And Eugenics was historically practiced such that criminals would be sterilized as part of their punishment.

It's worth pointing out that governments already intervene with unqualified parents by removing the child from the household. Shifting the burden of proof from the government needing to show neglect to parents needing to prove themselves worthy is a dangerous amount of authority to cede to a centralized, corruptible power.

Also, it's not clear how you handle unlicensed parents. People are going to have unsafe sex no matter how illegal you make it. Would you push for preemptively sterilizing everyone and trusting it can be reversed after a license is acquired? Forcing abortions? Confiscating the child after birth?

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (10 children)

Jeez, this thread is scary, I forget how many crazy opinions people can have.

Mine is probably that non-human animal lives matter, maybe not exactly in the same way that human lives do, but in a comparable and important way. I believe that murder is murder no matter the animal killed.

And also a maybe close second (not really an opinion but you could argue that I'm too dark about it) is that climate change is far past the point of no return and that in 50 years we are all going to live extremely hard lives (if we even survive) that right now would seem like an apocalypse type fantasy movie.

[–] ChilledPeppers@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Climate change is not a lost cause. We are beating any estimates on wind and solar deployment, solar is cheap as fuck, and overall, were just no that bad off.

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[–] Contemporarium@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

OMG IM SO SHOCKED A BUNCH OF SUPER POPULAR OPINIONS ON LEMMY!!

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[–] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 64 points 3 days ago (29 children)

If you eat factory meat, you're doing something morally wrong that can't be justified.

And the vast majority of people who get defensive about that, deep down know what they are doing is morally dubious at best, but they can't/won't admit it, so they lash out at vegans/vegetarians instead.

[–] Jentu@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

There's something to be said about the ease of access and personal energy needed to deal with changing a diet that has been inherited by birth where the alternative is possibly much more expensive. I don't blame individuals who eat cheap meat out of necessity just as I don't blame people for not recycling since the responsibility of the exploitation and destruction of our planet lies entirely with the people who run the machine, not those who are forced under threat of violence to exist inside it.

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[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 122 points 3 days ago (9 children)

Everyone should have to retake the driving test (both written and practical) every five years. And if you don't pass on the first try or are in a crash where you are found at fault, it should be bumped up to every year for the following five years.

People drive dangerously because they've forgotten rules, or rules have changed, or they've had a physical or cognitive decline. And yet we're like "yep, you took a test once decades ago, good to go."

Dangerous driving kills so many people.

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