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[–] MobileSuitBagera@lemmy.fmhy.ml 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Remember kids, they also get to use the money they guilted off of you to reduce their tax liability because they get credit for donating your money!

Edit: I'll be dammed looks like I was wrong. Here is an article on [https://www.charitywatch.org/charity-donating-articles/store-check-out-charity-donations](why you might not want to donate anyway). I stand corrected.

[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

They do not, at least in the US.

[–] axtualdave@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

It depends on exactly what the store is doing.

If the store is representing the extra charge as a donation to a specific charity, generally, the customer can deduct that.

If it's far more vague, like, "Give $10 to help poor kids in Africa" the ultimate destination for the funds could be the company's own ledgers, which it would then use for its own charitable activities and collect the tax deduction, as long as they "help poor kids in Africa."

And some stores are just lying. CVS, for instance, was sued as part of a class action suit when, after the company pledges $10 million to the American Diabetes Association, then collected money from customers to fund that pledge.

[–] MegaUltraChicken@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

My favorite one is when our utility company asks me to donate to help pay for people's utilities like they aren't raking in record amount of cash.

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[–] FreeDiverX@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago

First, please don't link to Reddit...

Many Of The Largest Charities In America Are Giant Money Making Scams
http://thetruthwins.com/archives/many-of-the-largest-charities-in-america-are-giant-money-making-scams

[–] fsk@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Those charities have huge overhead. Very little money goes to the actual cause.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

There are sites to check how much actually goes out. Check before you donate.

[–] AltF4me@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] drmugg@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 years ago

And redirecting you attention on to the "offsets" scam too.

Ever wonder why climate change is such a problem if 1.5 pence per liter petroleum burnt can undo the damage? Spoiler: it can't. You can't sequester CO² for that cheap, and CO² isn't the only issue. "Offsets" are not certified by any trustworthy third party, and companies intentionally don't pry too much, so they can say "Oh sorry, didn't know" if anyone investigates and discovers they did squat-all.

[–] demvoter@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I don’t trust them to actually donate anyway. How would you ever find out? I suspect these are scams to hold the money and get interest off it even if they do ultimately donate it.

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[–] zombuey@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Just FYI this is a sort of scam. The company donates the money on your behalf and they get the tax write-off for your donation while also appearing philanthropic for PR purposes. that's why they do it.

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[–] Licensed_to_ill@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Those donations you make can help them deduct from taxes, right?

[–] HRDS_654@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yes, which is why you should donate yourself if you are inclined to do so.

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[–] Janus67@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I think that's a myth as it isn't income it goes into a separate fund to transfer 1:1.

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[–] Spacecraft@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I hate when they pull this shit at drive through fast food. “Would you like to round up to donate to our charity?”

Who knows what the person taking my order thinks about this charity, and what they might do to someone’s food who says no.

Edit: The fact that merely implying a fast food worker wouldn’t be a complete perfect human being gets so many downvotes says a whole lot about this community.

[–] sirkook@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I can assure you that nobody working at the fast food restaurant gives a shit if you donate to charity.

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[–] this@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Or just...donate the perfectly good food they constantly throw out into the cadged dumpsters designed to keep homeless people out... Litteraly would cost them nothing...

[–] JimmyDean@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

"But if we feed them then those broke homeless people won't come in and spend their (nonexistent) money on our food!" -upper management

[–] tomve_cz@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

It's still fine.

Some big international store in europe is asking to buy food from them for full price and donate it to food bank. Fuckin hilarious for making profit on charity.

[–] TheDeadGuy@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

[–] toxicbubble@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

PSA: most Americans can get up to $300 deducted from their annual taxes through donations.

[–] Skellybones@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I just say no

[–] danielton@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Just wait until you get a tip prompt on a self checkout kiosk...

[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And I will never ever give these fools my actual phone number for discounts. Just use any area code w/ 867-5309 to get around this.

[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Jenny Jenny, who can I turn to? You give me something I can hold on to. I know you think I’m like the others before who saw your name and number on the wall

[–] EmergingDystopia@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yeah, this really bothers me. Because in reality, that company that you give money to at checkout is just going to bundle that all up and it's a donation in their name, used as a tax write-off. You as the shopper might feel nice and warm and fuzzy, but you're just giving a multimillion or billion dollar company a tax break. Just donate as yourself. If you want to help XYZ cause, do it on your own. My two cents.

[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

That's not how it works, at least in the US. You are donating as yourself, and can use the donation as a tax write off if you would like.

[–] KingStrafeIV@midwest.social 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Thank you for the link. To be clear to anyone too lazy to click (which you should do to verify anyway) this is a source that confirms that businesses don't get to claim your donation as their own.

[–] EmergingDystopia@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I didn't know that, and appreciate you saying that. I stand corrected. :)

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

They cannot and do not use your donations as a tax write off. That's not how taxes work.

[–] mcc@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

Then they will say it is more efficient to merge the donations with regular revenue and make bulk donations every quarter or something.

[–] darkknight@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I hate when any company I'm buying something from does this.

[–] TheDeadGuy@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

[–] Izzgo@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

This is actually true. But those small margins add up to a huge profit overall. Still, they probably could not afford to donate $20 per shopper.

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[–] Colt420@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

How bout the fact if they achieved their goals, they wouldn't have a problem to have a charity for and thats a bigger concern to them. They'd rather not help people than not exist. They may as well just pretend they are the poor people their campaigning for. Or be technically homeless and donate to themselves while living in charity(company) owned residence

[–] cloverthecutie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Nah the charities are usually legit. But the companies aren't doing it out of the goodness of their heart, it's a massive tax write off as well as free PR.

[–] norapink@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I hate these donate screens because I have no idea where the donation actually goes and i don't want to have to do a ton of research at the grocery checkout about whether its a good charity.

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