I don't think I have enough stamina
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i dont want to fuck a conservative
I especially don't want to fuck my dad, wtf
Sorry but the jpeg said you have to
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I don't want to fuck my dad.
Prude!
Let's not fuck them, kill them
I'm disappointed to say this, but don't fuck your dad :(
Conservatism was the original reactionary movement, and was against the French revolutionary ideas, which they still hate to this day, unless they can weaponize them temporarily against the working class, by pretending the owner class "should be treated fairly" (read: should get away with crime).
Conservatives were given the respect and treatment they deserved, back in those days
Do you mean liberalism? Cus liberalism was the french reactonary movement. And no, not neoliberalism - which is what the word is used as often today.
Within the ideals of liberalism someone's gender or sexuality has nothing to do with the government.
No, conservatism, as formulated by Edmund Burke in his attack against the French Revolution.
Ah, so not the revolutionares. i see
I find it hard to cut out parents regardless of their beliefs. I know my father wishes he had a better relationship with my grandfather and much regret/resentment is held there. My father is full MAGA, and we usually have total disagreements regarding how Elon Trump is tearing apart our nation. That being said, I know for a fact that if all I did was be angry with him and cut him out, and something were to happen to him, I would be filled with regret.
If it matters, I just turned 30. Life moves fast.
fuck your dad specifically 👍
Had a similar relationship, dad regretted how much he didn't talk to his dad (his dad was a bigger asshole, hated that grandparent). But he didn't do the stuff necessary to be much better at being a father, and happens to have fallen to the MAGA horseshit.
Fuck him. I'm 30 too.
Unless your parents are abusive and don't love you - don't actually cut contact. That's probably a bad life decision.
I mean you can say you love me and you're not abusive, but then if you go and vote for someone that causes near daily harm to me from their policy actions and you continue to support that politician; why would I want anything to do with you?
Plus, what child do they actually "love no matter what"?
Words vs Actions kind of thing.
You can say you love me, but your actions speak only to harming me and people like me.
Not that simple. When you've been abused all your life, you cease to understand what is abuse and what's normal. Parents can do the most fucked up things and claim that it is all because they love you.
This is why childhood abuse can make one vulnerable to abusive relationship as an adult. When you've been taught as a child that you are the cause for your parent's explosive temper, you normalize this behavior in your partner.
It may still be a good idea to reduce the volume if interactions become grating. Take more time for yourself, avoid bringing up landmine subjects, don't outstay your welcome, don't let them do it, either, etc.
But then we're back to walking on eggshells, not being authentic, practically masking for their benefit.
It's always down to the nuance of individual occurrences, yeah. In some cases, it wouldn't be that damaging with reduced frequency and duration of interactions, keep it short and sweet.
But I do agree with you that there are circumstances in which it's better to just cut them off then move on. Sucks, but that's the truth of it.
So you would say the same thing in 1938 if your father was an ardent member of the Nazi party?
Id say lie to him and take the fucker's money.
In such a scenario you have bigger issues to worry about. Your first priority should then be to emigrate far far away, ideally across some sort of ocean. If this seems like an overreaction to you, then what you're experiencing may not be comparable to the actual Nazi party.
So you don't think the situations are comparable?
Are you familiar, at all, with pre-WW2 Germany, or do you think Nazism just came out of nowhere fully formed?
I am lucky enough to not be explicitly part of any targeted group (at this time), so no, I would be a coward if I ran now. But yeah, that's obviously an option in the future.
There's a pretty big gap between "my parents are fascists, I don't interact with fascists, as a rule. That fucking sucks." and, "If I don't flee across an ocean, I will be put in a concentration camp"
Bad things also happen outside the concentration camp. Everyone is oppressed in a fascist state. Besides, there were other ways than skin color and nose size to end up in a concentration camp under the Nazis. Having the wrong books was enough. If you truly think the US is going all the way then the rational thing to do is to get out before you no longer can.
dressing nice is how they trick you into thinking they're a decent person
I'm not sure I want to do that... Just seems like... A lot.