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Is it douchey to wear shades inside, even if you're only going to be in for a few minutes?

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[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 3 points 16 hours ago

Indoor lighting with sunglasses on is too dim for my tastes. Alternatively, my shades might be too dark. I'll put them in my bag or on the brim of my hat, if one or the other are available.

[–] Logh@lemmy.ml 3 points 21 hours ago

A few years ago, I went out and brought myself a nice pair of perscription sunglasses, trouble was I didn’t have any spare cash to buy regular glasses. So, for about 2-3 years I had shades on everywhere I went, day or night. What I noticed is that if you’re confident enough people don’t really mind or act any different. Now that I have both, I easily keep the sunglasses on without noticing and there is no fuss usually unless I go into a bank or something.

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

I never take sunglasses off inside, unless there's an actual reason (like not enough light, or if I need to see colors correctly when shopping). There's always too much light everywhere, it's always too bright, and it's even worst at night because of the contrast between the darkness and the blinding lampposts. So light sunglasses everywhere.

As a bonus, that way I never have to bother with eye contact. Couldn't care less if people think it's rude: if I took the sunglasses off I'd inevitably forget to make eye contact and they would think it was rude anyway. Fuck eye contact.

[–] TechnoCat@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I remove my hat and sunglasses because I was taught it is polite to do so.

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

"OMG that guy with his hat on is so fucking offensive"

[–] Thebigguy@lemmy.ml 1 points 23 hours ago

Hat I do sunglasses I don’t depending on how much light hurts my eyes that day.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 23 hours ago

i keep em on because i have autism and eye contact is hard

[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Off. I'll likely need to switch to readers.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 2 points 17 hours ago

I just bought some cheap sunglass readers! $5 at Dollar Tree.

[–] roserose56@lemmy.ca 1 points 20 hours ago

I just push them on over my head, and rare I hang them in my shirt.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Holy shit. I never realized that this could actually bother people. I thought the jokes about it were based in the same place that jokes about popped collars are.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Depends on the sunglasses. Sometimes I'll put them up on my head, sometimes I keep them on. I use them to deal with light sensitivity so they're occasionally handy indoors.

I keep 2-3 shades on me of varying darkness at any time. Usually I'm wearing light rose-tinted ones.

[–] IttihadChe@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

On.

I'm blind as hell without my glasses and I never remember to bring my extra pair so if I'm wearing my sunglasses they stay on no matter what. If it was only going to be a few minutes I wouldn't swap even if I had my normal pair.

I never understood the "sunglasses indoors in douchey" thing anyway.

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

I don't get it either. If people wear sunglasses, whether inside or outside, they chose to wear them for a reason. Even if the reason is just "forgot to take them off". No one's deliberately wearing sunglasses to be rude to you...

Usually take mine off. Though there are times I forget I'm even wearing them.

[–] PurpleGameBoy@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I always take them off because I find it rude to keep them on.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 25 points 2 days ago

Yes.

You let people see your eyes so you can talk and put them at ease. What are you, a cop in Alabama whose authoritah someone needs to respect?

[–] Taco2112@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I haven prescription sunglasses. Generally I don’t wear them inside, occasionally I’ll forget that I have them until after I’m in the store though. My eyesight without glasses is terrible so I leave them on. Sorry if I look like an asshole but I would have trouble navigating my way and finding what I need without them.

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[–] scytale@lemmy.zip 19 points 2 days ago

I take them off because I can’t see shit.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Barring any eye issues, I remove them always when speaking to people. I find it disrespectful to speak without making visible eye-contact.

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[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Whenever I see someone with sunglasses inside, I always chalk it up to a) not being arsed to remove them, b) light-sensitivity due to migraine/hangover, or c) being on some sort of drug (sunglasses = invisibility cloak/comfort blanket for some folks).

All of these are totally valid. Douchey is as douchey does, if folks are acting polite/keeping to themselves I don't judge.

[–] MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

Here 's one more. I wear glasses for my bad eyesight. I have sunglasses that have the same value of correction. Sometimes, in the summer, when I'm out and I don't think I'll go inside anywhere, I leave my normal glasses are home.

So then, when you stop unexpected for groceries, you look like a douchebag with your sun glasses on, but you can't really take them off because you don't see shit without them.

[–] Libra@lemmy.ml 20 points 2 days ago

Depends how long I'm gonna be in there and how well I can see with them on. Well lit? In and out? They stay.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

I just slide β€˜em up on top of my head if it’s like, more than 2 minutes but less than an hour, especially in the summer.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 2 days ago (4 children)

You should wear them at night so everyone knows how cool you are. For even extra cool points, you can smoke and do drugs.

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

I do because at night the street lights are way too bright... Yes people look at me weirdly πŸ˜‚

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago

I wear it to cover my bloodshot eyes.

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[–] rahm02@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I feel like it’s fine. I don’t know, I would maybe stare an extra second at the person wearing sunglasses. But really, who cares? Do what feels comfortable for you. At least here in the States, we are way past anachronistic rules like taking your sunglasses off indoors.

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[–] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

On. But I have phototropic glasses 😁

I think the stereotype is douchebag because people don't think about all the possible legit reasons. I wear them when I have a migraine, often even at home. You could also wear them because they're prescription and you forgot the other pair at home. Or you simply forgot you have them on in the first place. We shouldn't judge but people like to judge. And they mostly judge douchebag because maybe more people wear shades indoors as an effort to build a personality around their empty shell of a self.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 11 points 2 days ago

There are 2 types of people who wear sunglasses indoors: the blind, and assholes. - Larry David

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 6 points 2 days ago

Under 5 minutes it isn’t

Especially if it’s a small store/ gas station

[–] VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I have photophobia, so I leave mine on. Though recently, I've started wearing blue blockers, and those also help with my light sensitivity.

[–] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago

I'll probably take my sunglasses off inside because it's going to be hard to see.

If the inside is as bright as the outside, then I might be inclined to keep them on.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago
[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I wear clipons, because I need prescription glasses, and having to swap from prescription glasses to prescription sunglasses back and forth multiple times a day is an ADHD recipe for losing an expensive pair of glasses.

I take my clipons off indoors though, but that's mostly because it's really hard to see indoors with them on :P

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[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 8 points 2 days ago

I have prescription sunglasses, and occasionally forget I'm wearing them. But I try not to wear them in a store.

[–] MonkeyTown@midwest.social 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I mean I used to wear sunglasses at work at my desk because everything in the office was just too damned bright. Same with a restaurant job for about 2 hours of sunset when the light streamed in the windows.

Who cares what people think? Protect your eyes and do whatever you like when entering a store. As long as you can see fine, it doesn’t matter.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Reaction lenses that take 10 minutes to calm down if I even glance at a window.

My solution? Dig deeper into the basement, tape up the windows and stare at a screen at all timea

[–] hellequin67@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 days ago

I don't use reaction glasses simply because they don't work in cars due to the UV filtering in modern glass, so I have prescription sunglasses and often forget the clear ones so if I'm out and about they're staying on otherwise I can't see or read.

[–] johannes@lemmy.jhjacobs.nl 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have see-through sunglasses, because they are specially made for my eyes. I can’t take them off inside because then i cant see well. But thats exactly why i opted for see-through glasses, so people can still see my eyes. They aren’t hidden :)

I believe that makes a difference to people, they just want to be able to see your eyes :)

[–] Libra@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I dunno if you know this but everyone has see- through sunglasses... otherwise they'd be called sunwalls. ;)

Got me there πŸ˜‚

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[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If I don't remember to take them off in my car(or I'm just feeling carefree) then Ill wear them inside because as long as it's well-lit I can see better with my prescription sunglasses. If it's dim then I do that thing wear I lift them slightly to peak out from under them to focus on important visual details like prices.

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