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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] harbo@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Not really, just annoyed. I used reddit for just over 10 years, and I was getting sick of it for the last few years anyway. I am really excited about Lemmy, I really hope it catches on. I got on the fediverse with Mastodon at the end of last year and I’m just so excited about the potential of it.

[–] VictorsPineal@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

I feel like I’ve been evicted from a house I loved and I’m kinda struggling with this feeling

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

I just keep thinking to myself, "it's the end of an era"

Reddit has been the only social network I've used for 12 years. I've watched it go through so much change over the years, but it always felt like even at its worst, it showed its users more respect and gave them more control over what content they saw than any other social network out there. I am cautiously optimistic about the future of Lemmy, but it makes me sad to watch RiF and Reddit phase out of my life.

[–] exRedditor@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Definitely! I will miss my late-night reading and scrolling. Also, getting invested in comment sections and learning new things from strangers. I will miss Apollo so much.

[–] DeepChill@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

No. Full stop. Fuck spez. I miss Apollo though.

[–] _Stalwart_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Not sad, just disappointed. They could have the perfect app and they ruined it, all just for more money.

[–] mfzachary@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago

I’m more upset about losing Apollo than anything. That app was the best thing to happen to the Reddit experience for me, and losing it will be weird for a while.

Haven’t been on KBin too long, but I’m glad to have found it.

[–] Lumilias@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago

Honestly yes, I had been using Reddit since at least 2010 and I was a strong forum user before that. Losing the community hurts, and fuck spez for forgetting his roots.

[–] heartlessevil@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago

A little but it's not like we didn't know this was coming. I mean, Lemmy was made because they recognized that centralized platforms all follow the same cycle.

[–] cptnflinty@lemmy.nz 3 points 2 years ago

Nah, this is exciting, like getting out of a mildly abusive relationship that all your friends and family knew was bad and had been trying to get you to leave the jerk for years and now you’re finally out the door. And you feel that spark in your chest, the stirring of anticipation you’ve not felt in a long time.

Get into it, you fucking hedonist

[–] Haunting_Tale_5150@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago

It's complicated. joined in 2018 right before they introduced new reddit and even back then there was a stigma reddit was "getting bad". However, reddit has been the best place for me to discover new things and the niche communities and interests were really great. I use an extension (that will surely die alongside the 3rd party apps) to find reddit comments associated with any youtube video that made my browsing really great.

The thing that makes me most upset is how they pulled out the rug from so many people and then acted like it was the people on top of the rug's fault it was pulled.

[–] aMalayali@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm from the state of Kerala in India. We had 4-5 active n quite decent subreddits on the state, local memes n all.
People are moving into lemmy, but many might not. Some might stay away from reddit, even after the blackout ends. Overall, I think they were fun people to interact with and since it's not sure whether an equivalent community will be built up here, it's sort of a loss.

[–] thisisdee@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Absolutely! I was able to find so many communities and started new hobbies there. But I just have to remind myself that I was there for 12 years so it just takes time to find that elsewhere.

[–] sorrowstouch@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Maybe now I'll be abit happier lol seeing nothin but mad American politics and videos of nazi rallies just makes me lose hope for humanity, at least of it's more out of sight that'll be better for everyone's mental health

[–] arefx@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

If I didn't see this coming from a lightyear away maybe I would be, but it's been obvious since at least 2016 the direction reddit was going.

[–] Vorthas@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

A little bit, there's a lot of specific subreddits I enjoyed browsing and talking in that have yet to reach a good critical mass here on Lemmy. I've been sharing my own custom Zelda monsters for Pathfinder 2e on the ZeldaTabletop subreddit and there's no substitute for that subreddit over here yet (I might make one once RiF dies on June 30th).

[–] lixus98@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago

I felt sad at first. When I saw that disaster of AMA it motivated me to just leave and delete my account.
I was a lurker on Reddit but here I get to participate and you really feel heard.

[–] Mantis7818@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

yes absolutely, found so many new hobbies just browsing/wasting time on reddit, let's hope that carries over to lemmy.

[–] Rick@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Oh yeah, I mean I find my self wanting to check it right now even, not checking reddit is giving me a huge sense of FOMO but that is reason enough alone to make me want to leave it lmao

[–] risottinopazzesco@feddit.it 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

New place new rules new spirit. I’m all in. Deleted Apollo, will overwrite my stuff on Reddit.

[–] FlaxPicker@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wish Apollo could get converted to use Lemmy. The ios app mlem is alright, but its very new and missing a lot of features, like a basic search feature. otherwise it works fairly well.

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[–] SolNine@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I don't really care... Reddit is constantly spamming me with follow bots from Only Fans, and I have never posted in a NSFW sub.

I'm also hopeful the way this is structured we will see a bit better moderation of servers/subs.

[–] ioNabio@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

No. I am very happy at discovering a new place. I also miss the social media, pre 2010s. like in 2005, it was amazing and people felt much closer. One had a feeling that everyone is genuinely here to help and enjoy while socializing, rather than karma farming.

I am talking before Facebook grew big. The time of Orkut, Gazzag, old reddit, Slashdot. or even yahoo messenger, mIRC, before all those websites became a thing. I was not afraid of posting something, and wasn't looking for votes, or afraid of down votes. Main aim of contributing to a post of joining in the discussion.

[–] nikmis@lemmy.click 3 points 2 years ago

I haven't mourned the loss of social media since I left my myspace account. That was my first love

[–] Crocrodile@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Personnellement je ne viens pas sur Lemmy à cause des mauvaises décisions de Reddit, mais tout simplement parceque je pense que Lemmy est une meilleure place. Le fediverse est pour moi une révolution de l'internet actuelle et je me sens tellement plus confortable sur ces plateformes qui respectent mes valeurs. Donc non, je ne vis absolument pas mal le fait de quitter Reddit

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