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Mine are:

  • Turning the spark wheel on a lighter in my pocket
  • Biting a finger
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[–] tourist@community.destinovate.com 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I like to pull the corner of my phone case off and snap it back on

[–] I_like_cats@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

Yes. I do that too. Also clicking the latch on my wrist watch

[–] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There's been a song stuck in my head for as long as I can remember (decades) that only comes out of the recesses of my brain when I'm alone, and I hum it over and over. Usually this is during driving or focusing on coding. Kinda frustrating that I don't even know if it's a real song or just something my brain is doing for fun. (It sounds a bit like the civil war song, When Johnny Comes Marching Home, I guess?) I'm too self-conscious to do it around other people.

[–] funkajunk@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Have you tried using something like SoundHound? I've hummed songs using it and had pretty good success.

[–] Tzayad@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Not exactly my favorite, but my most done is biting/peeling my lips.

Stretching is probably my favorite. Like those good ones after waking up

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 3 points 2 years ago

Finding a soft lock of my hair and twirling it around my fingers. Both for the softness and the gentle tugging at my scalp. And as a bonus it's fairly socially acceptable.

[–] Inky@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

As an adult it is a mix of leg jiggling and rubbing my finger nails against my thumbs. As a child I used to tap out rhythms with my heels and toes, much to the chagrin of my teachers and classmates.

[–] Psaldorn@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
  • jiggling pectoral or glute muscles (usually to music)
  • opening and closing the lid of an inhaler
  • grinding the folded tags in clothing
  • stroking beard
  • peeling top layer of skin off finger nails
  • plucking overly long eyebrow hairs
[–] Chucklefunk@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago
[–] readthemessage@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Usually when I notice I'm doing something (stroking my beard or moving my legs are the most common ones) and I have to be discreet, I try to focus on moving my toes

[–] TechyDad@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

When COVID hit and I started working from home, I decided to try growing a beard. After all, I didn't need to look 100% presentable during that awkward phase when it looks like you just forgot to shave a few days in a row.

Now, it's become a permanent part of my face and I love stroking it or pulling at the hairs (not enough to pull them out, just enough to play with them).

[–] OptimusPhillip@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Toys. I have a speedcube and several Transformers by my computer at all times.

[–] Bloodwoodsrisen@lemmy.tf 2 points 2 years ago

Bouncing my foot, rocking, or playing with my hair

[–] kresten 2 points 2 years ago

Probably shaking my leg slightly, or stretching

[–] kerneltux@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Rotate left & right on my desk chair Pacing around my living room puffing on my nicotine vape & talking to myself Stroking my walrus mustace (I blame Jamie Hyneman lol)

[–] contextual_somebody@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Rubbing my head. I keep it buzzed and it’s 👌🏻

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

When my feet are available for this, such as laying down or dangling, I like to push one down while pushing it up with the other foot, then switching feet.

[–] uzziah0@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Thumb to finger taps. I do this often, more when getting nervous. I tap teeth to each other, too, feeling like I'm tapping one top to one bottom at a time. Going all the way around to tap all my teeth. I realized I'm tapping multiple teeth each time, but it's a tap for each pair of teeth.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm a leg bouncer.

I also like those toggle switches with the super tactile click. I'll flip one of those back and forth a bunch if I had one on hand.

[–] TechyDad@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I like putting pressure on the arch of my feet. (Or where my arch would be as I have extremely flat feet.)

I actually bought a small wooden foot massager for this. As I'm working, I can just put my feet on this and roll them back and forth. I get the sensory input that I'm craving without needing to stop working to find something to press my feet against.

[–] JunctionSystem@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Cat: We wiggle our knees in and out. Feels good.

[–] neurodivergentAF@reddthat.com 1 points 2 years ago

Rocking, shaking my leg, tapping my finger, watching YouTube even when there’s nothing interesting on.

[–] SeeMinusMinus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago
[–] guangming@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

me, a person who's recently begun to suspect i might be autistic:

óoooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

yep.

[–] rabythin@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
  • Walking/pacing around the room in circles (I do this very often)
  • Shaking my legs
  • Twirling my hair
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