People like to be indirect with lgtbq+
I would say people think that there are only saints in LGBTQ* community, there could not have assholes or some having bad soft skills. It's known there are no introverts in the community, noooo. For the other, I could name two asshole LGBT* person: Sarah Sharp (FOSS) and Ellen DeGeneres (People).
So, misunderstands are certainly possible, but often in my experience
In my experience, I have seen more unjustified cancelling than real one and you are, here, doing the same. In no way /u/X77 was saying what you accuse him of.
No longer than yesterday, a person from Beehaw posted an illustration of a rainbow road roller truck driving over people tagged family, catholic, etc... not much of an issue, for you? Or maybe it is but this would have been a ban to MARS not just a "oh, this is not totally right or it is no meant to be blah-blah-blah..".
Well, when you cut off on the nuance, keep a black and white mindset, it's problematic. Remember the : "You are with us or against us"
The less epidermic censor reaction, especially on these stupid boo-boo words: M$ for microsoft in Linux subreddit might get you in trouble or using inoffensive slur. It does not mean I'd shit everywhere on Lemmy but I just don't like language policing "à la" Demolition Man. :)