anthony

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[–] anthony@lemmings.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nope, they highly support the LGBTQ at the school

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ohh, I get it. (Using I for simplicity) Is this advice community conservative or just the people my sister is with? For that, my sister thankfully doesn't mention it to the counselor that I'm plural because she doesn't know.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Thanks. Lots of people who have alters do it.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 10 points 2 days ago

Thank you so much. No, it is not bait, just worded weirdly. Thank you.

 

So, our sister (14F) has a school counselor, I believe, in her school. She is going to see her again this year. (We use we because we're plural).

The counselor says she cannot affirm the identities of people who are LGBTQ+, such as gay, bi, or under the trans umbrella. She also believes that being transgender is linked to mental illness and that she can't affirm people who are trans because it will "make their mental health worse" or something. The host is transmasc and when she referred to him as her brother, who happens to be trans, she said that he was really a girl and that in 2 years, he would "grow out of it".

In my opinion, it sounds unprofessional but I can't talk to anyone I know because they would agree with the counselor.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 1 points 2 days ago

inconsistent stupidity in their context

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 1 points 2 days ago

there's a community for memes and content for trans people in denial. trans people in denial are called "eggs", so it's egg_irl. i made one for plural systems in denial and memes. plural + egg = plegg.

 
[–] anthony@lemmings.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

He just says times were simpler and i think something about segregation still being a thing. i haven't told him because he just thinks i'm a girl.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 7 points 2 days ago (4 children)

well, for one, i think he said because something to do with white people. the same reason he likes europe. europe is primarily white people, he says, and segregation was still a thing in the 50s.

 

Since this is a community to get things off your chest, I wanted to share my genuine belief. I feel that as someone in this world that was beautifully added, I add some sort of value and make the world a better place. That each of us also have value and make the world a better place just by existing. Our value as beings, each being's value (except for nasty people) contributes to the universe and the Earth and can make society just a better place.

I myself am beautiful in my own way with my own value to the universe. I add something special and unique.

 

As a queer person (agender) with a conservative dad, I don’t get why he says he wants to go back to the 1950s. What was so special back then besides his reasoning that times were simpler? I feel like it would be harder for me then as a queer person.

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Sexuality off my chest (lemmings.world)
submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by anthony@lemmings.world to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world
 

My family would typically expect me to be into women. Some people, maybe men. But I really feel nothing for any gender at all. I like the idea of being in love and having a love interest, but the closest I could feel is what I thought was “love” due to feeling pressure around me. Or maybe to concepts or non-gendered people/entities, I don’t know how to describe it.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 2 points 3 days ago

So you just met them yesterday? maybe you could get to know them more and see if they’re good for you since you broke up with the other guy

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 2 points 3 days ago

Oh dang, nice! (Not nice that they broke up but nice that OP chose to break away)