There are different kinds of kindness. The people-pleasing kind may come across as being naive and triggers some people. Another kind of kindness is to actually care and be curious about others and that usually comes across better.
baconmonsta
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I can't reproduce this behaviour. Do you refresh the page before removing the vote?
Would be a shame if a dozen eggs would accidentally land on that polished chrome surface
I was wondering the same... Like why is the skin on top. Then I re-read the title...
Tesla's reputation is not doing great
I wonder about the hygiene
After a few succesful hits? Wow, that (shit-mouthed) cat had patience!
What does this 2 hours of preparation before work look like? I honestly have no idea
What was the cat's reaction?
Frankly, the way the topic sentence was formulated is mildly infuriating...
I had the same experience with that movie! By the way, please try not to kill spiders...
That's a good quote.
Also props for recognizing your own people-pleasing tendencies. And I'm glad to hear you've worked on it. It takes time to understand what causes us to be like that. It might be out of fear of rejection or some other unwanted outcome. And it could be based on some irrational assumptions or beliefs.
To be able to accept any outcome in any situation is very difficult, but a strong foundation for confidence and inner peace.