gift_of_gab

Even if Americans actually stand up to this and General Strike or something, how long will it take anyone who isn't a white man to believe pretty much anything the American government tells them?

I was skeptical the entire country was going to fall, but now I think it is already happening. Putin won the cold war after we all thought it was over, I guess. And what a world he's provided for us...

"I'm your... Doge?"

I'm so sad Fascists are stealing yet ANOTHER thing they didn't come up with.

If this woman knew who Enrique was, she could have very easily (and intentionally) got him arrested for this

Or, and stay with me here, she's a victim who was attacked by a man who leads a group characterised as: Misogynistic, Islamophobic, transphobic and anti-immigration.

It was a nose-thumbing photo by Whitey Schafer on the 'Hays Code', which said what you could and couldn't show in film.

Looking at it now you're right, not only could it be an album cover, those are pretty fantastic song titles, too...

(I just like the gorgeous woman standing over a cop 🫦 )

even if bi-erasure is a pretty serious issue.

Yeah I've been bi(sexual) since the 90's when it was, uh, 'frowned upon', but I came out as bi-romantic last year. The erasure is absolutely real and brutal. I was talking with a guy (who was gay) and when I said I was bi he sighed aloud and then just walked away. The vast majority of people are much better about it, though I have not had a great experience once I came out as enby. Random women have come up and 'negged' my hair/clothing/etc, men on the other hand get annoyed when they mistake me for a woman.

I mostly just care about the intent. Nobody ever means me ill will when they refer to me as gay, so it’s w/e.

I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but you might want to say to them 'hey so I love being included, and it feels somewhat erasing to be...'. I find that the vast majority of the time that goes over well and people go with it.

I don't know if you've experienced this (or are this age) but my kids are gen-Z, and they use 'gay' and 'queer' (mostly) interchangeably. One of my kids who is gay constantly refers to me as 'gay' because I'm bi. One of their friends who is a lesbian also uses gay, so it's been quite a learning experience for me.

Years later in programming people were slashing zeroes and I was mighty confused. Some greybeard explained it eventually.

As someone who slashes their zeroes, ouch.

You should probably delve that particular line of thought more deeply, tbh.

I know you meant this flippantly but I came out as nonbinary last year; having (especially white) men act like entitled toddlers online was a helpful push into embracing more femininity.

And I fully agree, the way the op posted it with “counter point” already send the discussion in the wrong way.

I think the 'discussion' failed the moment someone said "how come men are angry at women doing 'x'" and the entire fucking thread is full of men talking about men.

Like I'm not surprised, I'm just mildly amused I'm yet again changing accounts for awhile while my inbox fills with angry men shouting messages at me I never read. Every. Single. Time. A thread about an experience a woman has with men being shit in it is always filled with comments from men "nuh uh, whatabout...!" in response.

Every. Time. It's so fucking embarrassing I wish I could literally just not be my gender for awhile. We've been in power for almost the entirety of humanity but oh my God a woman made a comment about how shitty men are to them, so let's constantly make absolute ironic assholes of ourselves.

Peace out, men, you continue the trend of making us all look like whiny babies who can't handle not being talked about, and not being The Normal.

Yes, it’s not a counter point but rather an also important parallel discussion. We need to have higher standards for male role models, or we will continue to have incels fill the space.

I feel like it's awfully interesting though that we have 'parallel discussions' whenever someone says "hey this specific thing sucks for women." The original question posited here was:

Why do males complain about female-led stories or too many female characters when the majority are still dominated by males?

The question is why do men complain about female leads, which they do, when the majority of leads are still male, which they are. The answer to that isn't "we need better male role models in movies" (though it would obviously help as well) as it's dodging the original question.

You can’t really compare the two movies,

I'm not exactly, I'm asking why:

A story about a character born perfect and never faltering isn’t fun

Can be true, but also John Wick can never falter and that be fine. Kinda seems like a double standard to me.

First, I'm confused as to why you'd need to segregate books and film by gender, these all have either a male or non-gendered lead: Captain Underpants, Nate the Great, Hal The 3rd Class Hero, The Hobbit, The Lord of The Rings, Treasure Island, Danny the Champion of the World, The Outsiders, The Adventures of Robin Hood, Percy Jackson (all 40 billion of the series), The Giving Tree, Charlie and The Chocolate Factory, Bridge to Terabithia, James and the Giant Peach, Holes (series), Where The Wild Things Are, The Heroes of Olympus (more Percy Jackson I think), Ender's Game, Winnie The Pooh, Narnia (series), The Wind In The Willows, The Indian in the Cupboard, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Neverending Story, I Am Every Good Thing, Don't Hug Doug (He Doesn't Like it), King Arthur's Very Great Grandson, A Wizard of Earthsea, The Wild Robot (series), Stuart Little, Mr. Popper's Penguins, George's Marvellous Medicine, Lord of The Flies, Calvin and Hobbes (series), The Dangerous Book for Boys, The American Boys Handy Book.

(You didn't specify age, so I tried to add our family suggestions for about 4-12. Once he's older, depending on your thoughts on the language, we also have a lot of suggestions for Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn)