growsomethinggood

joined 2 years ago
[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 13 points 3 weeks ago

"Let my people piss" -trans Moses

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Not a solve-everything solution, but I enjoy blocking every user who is even slightly a shit. My experience of slowly curating out the dumbasses has certainly made my experience a better one!

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Bisexuals aren't exclusively attracted to men and women, nonbinary and agender folks are largely included. Common interpretation of the bi=2 prefex is including 1) same- (homo) and 2) different- (hetero) gender sexuality. Colloquially the difference between bi and pan is usually described as bisexuality allowing for preference for certain genders but not exclusively so, while pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender. A given bisexual might be attracted to twice as many women as men, but that doesn't mean their attraction to those men isn't real, you know? Meanwhile a pansexual could have attraction to the exact same people but wouldn't ascribe it to gender, just individuals. Largely the difference between the two is therefore personal preference in how someone experiences their sexuality.

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 10 points 1 month ago

Assigned Woman By Internet

For real, I'd much rather have a trans-friendly community that sometimes forgets cis people exist than one that excludes trans people!

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's fair! I've definitely gotten both. Some people take internet forums as their own personal debate club and I'm gonna side-eye what they choose to devil's advocate, you know?

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 38 points 1 month ago (16 children)

Are we prepared to talk about the subtle (or sometimes unsubtle) misogynist (plus intersections of transphobia, homophobia, and racism) streak on the Fediverse? I've gotten the weirdest pushback for relatively mild takes with such frequency I've come to expect it. I am not afraid to block anyone who is being a prick, but if anything I post gets a modicum of attention I have to avoid my inbox like the plague or be sealioned to death. I don't remember it being this bad on reddit (but I think communities self-sorted better with a larger userbase).

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 13 points 1 month ago

We all make mistakes, the best we can do is learn and grow from them. Sounds like you are doing better ♥️

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 58 points 1 month ago (15 children)

Pretty wildly demeaning to take someone doing something brave and putting her body on the line for people in need as "main character syndrome". What have you done lately?

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 20 points 1 month ago

Ignoring all other aspects of this argument, "natural" does not mean good (or inevitable)! You know what else is natural? Hurricanes! The plague! Too much sun giving you cancer!

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I wouldn't pirate it for shits and giggles since that still communicates interest in the property. If you have to have to engage with it for whatever reason, piracy is the most ethical way to do so of course.

Ahh, no! I was agreeing with the top comment that using UTC everywhere would cause more problems. Glad we're on the same page now!

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't understand what you're asking here. I'm saying if you kept UTC in every place on earth, you'd still have to relate those hours to a solar based local time. If you wake up at 6UTC in London and then travel to Moscow, the sun in Moscow would rise 3 hours earlier (guessing, not sure exactly what time time difference is). So if Moscow was also keeping UTC, they would set their alarms for 3UTC to wake up with the sun. If you travel to Moscow, you'd wake up at 3UTC with the sun, which is the equivalent of 3am London time, but is around sunrise locally. This is just how time zones work, so I have no idea where the confusion is.

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