wuphysics87

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[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

Before reading. If you have to ask, the answer is yes

Edit: My answer is still yes. Based on your title I thought you didn't work for the manager (a manager vs. my manager)

You respect them, you feel as though you disrespected them, and you want to maintain their respect. Apologize. Simple as that.

Where you need to be careful is the transactional nature of the apology. I.e. Maybe if you apologize then you can tell her what she did to piss you off. That's a bad play in any relationship.

You need to think about what that thing is and how it effects the way you do your job. Nuts and bolts. If it's something that improves the quality and efficiency of your work. Bring it up in a meeting. Otherwise, you aren't the boss. Suck it up and deal with it.

P.S. We aren't anti management. We are anti abuse. Based on your description, thid isn't an abusive relationship.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That one episode of tng where the aliens of the week were black people

Or the one where Dr. Crusher bangs the ghost that banged her grandma

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

Isn't that when the rapture happens tho?

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

You wouldn't believe the pronouns

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago

Keyword former He's subconsiously defending a better version of his younger self

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Transphobic jokes in his material. Particulary netflix specials.

Unless you mean sucessfully cancelled.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago

Almost as good as gay hitler (no shade on gay folks)

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

This is a good post as more and more many of are planning for non linux users. My suggestion. Do the most vanilla thing. The boon and curse of linux is the number of choices. Make the simplest choice for them and yourself.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

The Grinch's heart paused contracting further.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Do you use linux?

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sucks to be an unemployed professor

 

I use ProtonMail, and I was thinking, "Damn, it's spectacular not being tracked... but hold on a minute. Perhaps less than gmail, but still at all. And what about browser fingerprinting, and cookies, and even fonts!" I ended up in that feedback loop we all end up in. Perhaps ignorance is bliss? What is something you (might) wish you were ignorant of?

 

E.g. music, sculpture, novel

Avoid 'maybe' or 'it depends'. Take a stand!

 

For those of you who travel in the united states, you'll know they now have facial recognition scans when checking your id. You can opt out by telling them you don't want to take the picture. I do every time, but I wonder what the point of the scan is if you can just opt out. That given, why do you think they do it? What prevents them from forcing you to do it?

To those of you who live outside of the united states, have you seen a similar increase in security at your airports?

 

I use OSM and Organic Maps, but I have difficulty searching by address or business. I end up using my computer, finding the location, matching it to the map in the app, and favoriting it. Am I doing this the dumb way? Is there an alternative FOSS navigation app which has this functionality?

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I would become the glitter faerie of a Trans-Pacific flight

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Edit: Thanks for the advice. I didn't want to describe the exact situation because I was hoping for more general advice. Listing the age probably would have helped, though. To preface this, I don't have kids

I was left with my 2-year-old niece this afternoon. My sister was working, and my brother-in-law was taking my other niece (5) to a birthday party. Before he left, my brother-in-law put the 2-year-old down for a nap. He told me to wake her up in 2 hours. She woke up in about 20 minutes.

At the time, I was doing some electrical work with the entire house out, because fuck the person who labeled the breaker. So I'm knees deep in exposed wires when I hear someone screaming "daddy!" upstairs. I made things as... less unsafe... as I could and went to her room. After trying to console her for about 10 minutes, I decided to let her just cry it out. She never did.

I finished my work, running up and down the stairs several times (like you do when someone doesn't label the fucking switches), and I went back in her room. She's still screaming for her dad. I eventually got her to calm down by pulling up a nursery rhyme video, and getting her a snack.

So far as I'm concerned, "I did everything right". I didn't get upset, I tried to let her resolve her own issues, and ultimately, I was able to get her to calm down. (I said I didn't get upset. I got very worried she'd walk out with all the wires out of the wall) Still wonder could I have done anything differently? Is this just a no win scenario? What would you have done?

Now the 5 year old I have different problems with. She likes to push buttons. The latest thing being her trying to jump on me when I'm on the couch. My sister has a pretty straightforward time out protocol, which, I've "abused" in the past. They usually give her 5 minutes, I gave her 15 with less warning than they give. (She hit her sister, wtf am I supposed to do...) Holy crap I've never seen a kid that upset! She appealed to my brother-in-law and got the sentence reduced to normal.

So now she does this thing where if I tell her not to do something, she'll try to side step it to see what she actually can get away with. Do I straight shut that down? Do I let it go for a while? She tries to have these kinds of things arbitrated by my sister and brother-in-law. They don't exactly take her side, but they don't take mine either. They kind of let it alone, which empowers her.

My sister and brother-in-law are by no means roll-overs. They take discipline seriously and have fantastic communication with the kids about how both parties feel, why, and why the consequences are what they are. But I tend to be less tolerant of behavior I've already addressed and see as unacceptable. Thoughts?

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Serious or otherwise.

Update: Thanks for all the advice! The interview went really well! At the end, the department chair said he was going to talk to the Deans. Now all I can do is wait. Thanks again!

 

spoilerConsider replacing "you'll" to "I'd" if that changes the meaning for you

 

Example: There was a time when people didn't salt their food

 

Jesus. Another one of these? Every freaking day. (Promise it's different)

I personally like mint and pop!os for new users, but for this user I want to try something windows like with more sex appeal. I don't want to have to touch this computer again. Proprietary software is not an issue/consideration. User is techier than most. What has your experience been with kbuntu? Pros/cons? Other suggestions?

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