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Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

Rules…

  1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
  2. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
  4. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it.
  5. New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.

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We made it through another week! Today we're going to play wrong excuses. Theres root comments with offers (eg "wanna come cinema on Saturday at 3?"). Someone replies to an offer with a ridiculous excuse like "I can't I'm flying solo round the earth". More ridiculous the better!

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I'll start with:

  • Boss Bitch - Doja Cat
  • Goddess - Krewella and NERVO
  • You Should See Me in a Crown - Billie Eilish
  • Beneath my Throne - Nina Tribus
  • When I Rule the World - LIZ
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We're often caregivers, rescuers, and support others. Who here has got stuck trying to fix someone?

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Some people prefer really formal places, with clear corporate policies and procedures. Other people like more laid back, make it up as you go along. Some like pressurised, some don't. What culture do you like?

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So, long story short: I've been a musician for pretty much all my life. After a massive hearing loss, I picked up drums about a year ago and I've had so many great teachers myself. Now the local music school asked me if I could teach drums to their kids. They lost their former teacher due to old age.

I have rarely dealt with children. Sure, I was a tutor for some when it comes down to languages, but teaching music? That is so new to me and I'm actually afraid.

I am all gauntles right now negotiating the deal here: I want espescially girls to learn a new intrument. They must be bored out of themselves just playing the flute, organ and piano.

So, my approach is probably this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VL5oBbriJuQ

:D

Any hints or tips you can give me? Please?

I'm a 38 years old lesbian with basically no clue whatsoever when it comes down to dealing with kids... ^^

EDIT: I'm afraid the girls want me to play pop music on the drums, and I get easily bored by that.

Watch one of my drumming teachers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHl_gsd0OR0

XD

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It's easy to get bogged down by life, so let's look at the positives. What's gone well this week?

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Remember no politics! LGBT people's lives can be different because the world isn't LGBT inclusive. We all face challenges, but LGBT people can face particular ones... what are some of them?

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Fun activity coming up with the kids? New top you've bought? An opportunity at work? Whatever it is we want to hear!

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Y'all it's bout to be 100 degrees all next week where I am. My ideal temp is between 60-70 so I'm wilting at the thought.

I love love love layers and accessories, but that is difficult right now. So here's what I've got:

  • loose, open, light-colored cotton tops that can be worn over a tank top.
  • hats that allow ventilation but keep the sun out of your eyes.
  • lightweight jewelry can be layered.
  • I don't step outside in any degree weather without sunglasses.
  • if you're pulling your hair up, there are all kinds of bows and scarves that will add interest without adding insulation.

If anyone has tips for staying fashionable in the extreme heat, I'd love to hear them!

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Brook House in west London will be a "UK first" in providing homes exclusively for women.

The idea is that single women are their own demographic, with different needs to families etc. It's partly aimed at DA survivors... let's be honest, even without DA a massive part is safety.

What's your thoughts on this project? Would you be more likely to live in a block of women only flats to mixed?

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We made it through another week! Today's game is "what would you do if". One person posts a scenario, the next answers it. Either answer a scenario or pose your own below.

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June is Pride Month! Do you feel you're on this scale? Or more of a mix of different ones?

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Ingenious way of distracting your child? Did a dance class? Excellent work time management? However you've been creative, tell us below!

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