Selfhosted

smtp_to_telegram

Install dovecot and set up your email client to connect to it. Email is trivial if you're not sending to other hosts.

It's not really that privacy friendly, but I use zoho. You can send emails free from aliases with your own domain name so I have emails coming from nextcloud@mydomain pve@mydomain etc.

i use https://www.mailjet.com/ they gave a free tier that goes a long way for mails like that.

I've been pretty lazy with this.

I used to use my hotmail account, but they disabled password auth for smtp and many programs dont support 0auth2.

With that change, I just moved to using gmail. You've gotta create an App Password for smtp, but other wise works fine.

I've just been too lazy to move out of gmail+hotmail. Maybe one day

Self hosted ntfy and mailrise. Mailrise is a wrapper for apprise that let's you send emails to it and in turn converts the email to the desired push alert.

For password resets or account creation welcome emails I'd use a SMTP service. I use SMTP2GO for those. Free plan is something 1000 emails a month. I've been using them for a year and think I've sent maybe 5 or 10 emails.

I do this with my home network using FastMail. You can create App specific passwords for each service you add email notification support for. This means you don’t risk compromising your full accounts passwords. You can also put constraints on each app password, such as limiting it only to sending emails but not reading email or looking at your contacts and files. This is nice in case any of my passwords are leaked.

PurelyMail is what I use. It's been great so far. I've been using it for over a year for this exact use case.

FastMail is nice.

or (I don’t recommend it) you could learn to:

I use SMTP2GO (with my own domain) with the free plan (1000 email per month) that's way over a selfhoster needs.

Find out if your ISP provides an SMTP smarthost.

Worth noting that in Finland they are also by law required to log metadata of delivered mails.

Stalwart mail

I use docker-mail-server

I'm using smtp gotify , been using it for a while now and it seems OK for alerts and outer features

https://github.com/jreiml/smtp-gotify

You only need SMTP server, so the inbox size doesn't matter (assuming you have another email where you want to receive those notifications). And even if you have separate inbox for alerts it's quite unlikely that you get hundreds of megabytes worth of alerts every day and they're pretty much useless after a day or two so there's no need to keep them around.

In here ISPs commonly have SMTP service included on their service, so that's worth checking. Beyond than that, any at least somewhat reputable provider will do as long as they provide traditional SMTP service. One option is to use a relay host on local network which sends mail trough a smart host so you can just use local unauthenticated SMTP server for all the things you run and that one service will then push the messages to the internet.

I use gmail. You just have to set up an "app" password. I always have to search for how to do that, but once you have an app password you're off and running.

I also just started hosting my own nfty and have been moving as much as possible to that. So far I've replaced two email notifications with push notifications, which is nice.

I started running into the same problem about 2 years ago. Found a company called Send in Blue ( which has since been bought and is now called Brevo). They're a commercial mail sender but have a free tier. How long that will continue to be available, I don't know, but for now it solves my email sending issues.

I ended up setting up a postal server on my vps (see here). Their docs are pretty easy to follow through and it's probably the cheapest option (assuming you already use the and have a domain).

Email is like, the worst possible option. Check out Apprise. Super easy to setup Telegram or Discord notifications via webhooks. Takes like a minute.